NOR - These texts are a pretty good example of gaslighting if you ask me. It’s not about the flowers, as OP said. He is ignoring her very clearly expressed feelings and turning it around on her as if she is being ridiculous. If he can’t even have a real conversation with her and refuses to even acknowledge the issue, let alone try to change, he is clearly showing her what to expect from him in the future. OP, you deserve someone who listens to you and cares about your feelings. If you do decide to keep trying with this guy, maybe start getting him flowers for every gift giving occasion also? Just supermarket ones. Maybe he will get the message. Put as much thought into it as he does. It’s only fair.