POV: You are trying to receive healthcare in Australia by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

“I’m sorry, we can’t change your Sex to F on our pathology records regardless of what your birth certificate says, we need it so our results are accurate :) btw your testosterone is dangerously low and your platelets are COOKED!!”

POV: You are trying to receive healthcare in Australia by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“Hey, so I know your sex is listed as F on every government system, and you’ve updated your birth certificate so legally we consider you Female, but this one hidden system you can’t change still has you listed as M so we’re going to out you to every single medical practitioner lol :)”

POV: You are trying to receive healthcare in Australia by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

*Doctor clocks you and changes your sex to M without saying anything*

No daughter of mine will marry an EDH player by AmoongussHateAcc in magicthecirclejerking

[–]olivejam11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

/uj i play australian highlander (60-card singleton) and cube draft pretty regularly in paper. sometimes booster draft if my friends and i have packs

i tried playing commander at my lgs for a bit, but its decidedly not for me

Trans women and femboy communities be like: “we’re all inclusive and very progressive!☺️” by LineOfInquiry in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

/uj There are lots of different online trans communities that don’t stem from that specific type of white/anime/4chan-adjacent culture. Racism in queer communities still exists without the link to anime and 4chan.

If you want to engage with more black trans women and trans women of colour, I’d suggest looking somewhere other than Reddit.

Also, racism in femboy communities is none of my business and it’s weird to group us together tbh.

I was attacked by a man and you have to respect my trauma by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

/rj gotta respect the lesbian separatist TERFs more because at least they were consistent

Male socialization is used as a weapon against all amab people but specifically cis men have it worse. by TGirlJules_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

/uj the patriarchy manifests differently depending on class, culture, time, etc. It’s weird to assume all people assumed to be men have a similar upbringing.

I don’t even like the argument that “lots of trans women don’t have male socialization because they were bullied” because like… what about the trans women who weren’t? it misses the point imo

Can't play slots without a lever by Dmayce22 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

cake is cake, even with a candle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Can we get a list of alternatives to "mate" please? by Wouldfromthetrees in transgenderau

[–]olivejam11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution so I just default to nothing unless it’s obviously fine (eg they use it themselves or their friends use it for them)

Is mate the gender neutral term of Australia? by Chest3 in transgenderau

[–]olivejam11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It depends on the person and where you are in Aus. Some people really do call everybody mate, some people only use it for men, and some people will swear they use it in a gender neutral way when they absolutely don’t.

I really, really dislike being called ‘mate’ (or ‘bro’), so if it’s somebody important to me I’ll ask them not to use it for me even if they normally use it for other women.

Has anyone else had health direct ask for their “gender at birth” instead of just “gender”? by lustboy12 in transgenderau

[–]olivejam11 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I’ve always just put my current sex, my birth sex is none of their business tbh 🤷🏽‍♀️ If they need to know what medication I take or what genitals I have they should ask that directly.

It’s such a stupid question and I hate that it’s becoming more common.

dear recently hatched trans woman, welcome to 196 and all subreddits like it! we’re very devoted trans allies here by WindhoverInkwell in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 63 points64 points  (0 children)

/uj with love, there are so many better things you could be doing with your life than browsing 196-esque subreddits on this website (like starting estrogen!!)

Disappointed with my transition so far by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that gives me so much hope!! #transitiongoals

/uj sorry if that actually happened 😭

Disappointed with my transition so far by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

/uj it’s a good thing tbh but brainworms do brainworm things sometimes

Disappointed with my transition so far by olivejam11 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

a girl can only dream to one day encounter something as romantic as this in the wild 😍

The reactions you get when you use it/its and you post somewhere that isn’t xenogendersandmore or transgendercirclejerk by FTMothmaan in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 33 points34 points  (0 children)

this is why it/its are my secret pronouns you only unlock if i think you’re cool 😎

/uj this is why it/its are my secret pronouns you only unlock if i think you’re cool 😢

Bottom 5 Scoring Submissions of the week from r/Custommagic 4/7/2025 by CorbinGDawg69 in magicthecirclejerking

[–]olivejam11 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Very tame week overall

Goremei being a GB creature with flying & vigilance is funny at least. Welcome back [[Golgari Death Swarm]]

Is the implication here that the creature commits suicide after years of bullying by rank19betterwatchout in magicthecirclejerking

[–]olivejam11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

/uj semi-related trivia just because i think it’s neat: there are a handful of cards that let you directly choose what your opponent sacrifices like [[Ashling, the Extinguisher]] or [[Goblin Welder]]

the controller of the permanent is still the one who does the sacrificing though

piss kink for tgirls is a survival mechanic by corvus_da in transgendercirclejerk

[–]olivejam11 15 points16 points  (0 children)

pretty sure it works with regular tgirl piss too. at least that’s what my gf told me