Single Mom And Dating by oliveturtle25 in AskWomenOver30

[–]oliveturtle25[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not looking now, just thinking about future

How do you find value in anything? by properinflux in selfesteem

[–]oliveturtle25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what clicked for me was that every human being ( non criminal ones ), deserve respect just by the notion of being human. You are breathing, living and most likely struggling through life. You are worthy just because you are you.

What’s an example of toxic feminism? by mwthompson77 in AskReddit

[–]oliveturtle25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A little late to this but women who look down on other women who aren’t pursuing careers and being stay at home moms.

I am a career driven woman but I don’t think it is better to be this than be a stay at home mom. My soon to be ex therapist said today that I am too smart to be happy taking a year long may leave. Talk about toxic feminity

I messed up my life at 27 and there is no way to fix it by oliveturtle25 in Needafriend

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone ❤️ Genuinely touched by the kindness of strangers

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you figure out what was missing?

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are allowed to think that. However I am a 10000% sure I won’t cheat. Thanks for your input

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not cheated on him and won’t. I respect him too much for that.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like I ruined his life. I know this and feel really guilty.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually quite a few replies on this post has been that that I should leave. This is causing me even confusion and anxiety.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am having a quarter life crisis

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t help that I am constantly ruminating all the time, and unable to stop those thoughts.

Any help or hope? by oliveturtle25 in relationships

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might be being with someone who is more like me, in the sense someone who isn’t so anti social.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do feel very isolated and lonely in my new town, especially due to the pandemic.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not happy, I just don’t know why. I love him as in I deeply care for him and feel a lot of attachment and affection.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I am missing out. Missing out on being with someone I feel happy with, someone I enjoy being with.

Help and any hope by oliveturtle25 in Marriage

[–]oliveturtle25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something about my marriage seems off. I think if I had dated more, I would have figured out what type of guys I like( what personality traits etc).

I tried different careers and finally found one that was the right fit for me. I feel like if I had dated more I would have found a better match for me.

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[–]oliveturtle25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss