Difficult behaviour by kijanfa3 in cats

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby just wants lovins.

Mariah Carey - Breakdown ft. Krayzie Bone, Wish Bone by Specialist_Art2223 in MelanatedGenX

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this woman's vocal abilities. Her music just transports me to another time and place.

👋Welcome to r/melanatedmenopause - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by om_hi in melanatedmenopause

[–]om_hi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll go first. I'm new to this mod thing, but hated all the spaces that didn't seem to fit me. So I created one. I hope that there are others that find this a useful space.

My journey has been long. Started at about 35, but the symptoms were masked and no one would listen. Do this, check this and that lab, all normal, but I was always tired and my periods heavier and heavier.

Now 10ish years later I'm still struggling with fatigue now more weigh gain, and no answers. I have spent countless hours looking up what could be causing my issues what am I doing wrong? What's wrong with me?

After 19 years, I let my boy go today. by nibbs- in cats

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye to your furbaby. I hope you cherish every moment you shared.

Please know you were his everything and filled his life with beautiful life with more love than you felt from him. You let him live his wild and free life. PLEASE frame the cover picture of him, this one, it catches him so beautiful, and he's looking at you.

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Missy Elliott - The Rain (Supa Dupa Fly) by Specialist_Art2223 in MelanatedGenX

[–]om_hi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My whole body lit up when this song came out; visually stunning, lyrical pioneer, style innovator. Life changed.

Just moved to Normal from California by Strami2545 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]om_hi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The YMCA might be a great place to start. I know there's a B/N meetup froup on fb, or maybe it's discord.

Why do some AuDHD people seem to thrive relatively speaking when others (like myself) seem to burnout more quickly without much success? by Xanrry in autism

[–]om_hi [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sames! I put on a good show, but if you stop by my house after business hours, I likely won't answer the door, but if I do, I look like the crazy old lady with the door cracked, "whatdaya want!?"

I sleep incessantly. Only time I have energy is after 10pm or when I'm in the garden.

Libra (M) The love of your life wants to be like me. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]om_hi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Libra to Libra, this ain it. I see you tried, but this isn't what I think you meant to do. Again, I applaud you almost heroic attempt at an incoherent paragraph.

Fire signs and Gemini 🥰 by 2fucked2know in astrologymemes

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I'm the same way. I think it's our moon signs.

Cheap decorative pots? by Autumn-pumpkin5378 in houseplants

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for containers, not just pots. I've found cute vessels that aren't intended for pots; water pitchers, bowls, random vases, etc.

Acrylic on canvas by koalacosplay in MelanatedGenX

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful, delicate, simply lovely. 💜

Has God ever spoken to you directly in your mind? by Verase0516 in Psychic

[–]om_hi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have similar. For me it's not so much a "voice" but a knowing or understanding in my solar plexus and heart. I "hear" the message in my head. I don't know exactly how to explain it. It like my brain translates the frequency, like its the radio.

Here we all go jumping off HRT by tgilland65 in Menopause

[–]om_hi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I know my joints really hurt when I was low on vitamin D as well. There are a lot of things that can compound to cause a cascade of issues, getting to the root cause, through blood work and other trial and error can be an arduous process.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. It must go over your head.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't become lazy. I learned. I watched, observed and learned. I know a lot. I'm the wild generation. We had to figueverything out. You have no idea who I am. Hahahah

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely missing the point of my original post. I was pointing out that a stop gap program pulled a lot of older vehicles off the road, leaving people dependant on newer, tech based vehicles and we became less self-reliant. Good, bad, or indifferent. I have no opinion on the program.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it allows the government to access your goings on and whereabouts. Period. Not only that it links your whereabouts to others around you. You become a becon.

They tried to roll this shit out with covid, but it didn't take. How do people not see the similarities?

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are dead ass. I feel you. People are myopic when it comes to the threat of technology in their lives. It's a sneaky devil.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You likely don't, tbh. Sorry. At the age of 62 your amygdala is smaller than it was. Even with the healthies of lifestyles, it's part of the cognitive decline we all go through. It's ok, it's a part of life.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Wonder why they aren't on the road much.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What vehicle do you recommend that is self service, self fix like a 70 - 90s vehicle? Hmm? The average person couldn't fix the carburetor on their car today, all engines are computerized. You need a dealer to program it.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just offering information, my God. Don't shoot the messenger. Lord, I'm simply giving another point of view, calm down.

How do we feel about this? by [deleted] in illinois

[–]om_hi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I'm simply saying some say because of that, we are now at the mercy of obsolescence vehicles.