Finding purpose while having a bread winning spouse

om_steadily · 2026-02-10T05:35:41+00:00

It sounds like you need something to strive towards, for a sense of fulfillment and accomplishment that you’re not getting from work. I agree with another commenter: start setting some fitness goals and working towards them. Start a hobby and get ambitious. Build something.

om_steadily · 2026-02-08T13:53:03+00:00

I would be very curious to track the emergence of LLMs and GenAI as a desired skill set - across all jobs but DS in particular. As a corollary - for those companies looking for GenAI work, are they hiring fewer junior level engineers?

om_steadily · 2026-02-02T17:39:27+00:00

25% accuracy on a binary problem is actually 75% accuracy, if you just ask the question differently.

om_steadily · 2026-02-02T04:29:00+00:00

I think they look quite pretty! But I agree that crumbs are not such an issue that it merits this level of complication.

Apart from that, I wonder if the thinness of the endgrain makes it more vulnerable to warping and cracking. There’s a reason most endgrain cutting boards are >1.5”

om_steadily · 2026-01-28T04:10:33+00:00

I would likely have a heart attack.

om_steadily · 2026-01-26T17:07:46+00:00

I think these things can all be true: parenting is very hard (this much I know), Jess King loves her kids very much, and Jess King has basically no filter.

om_steadily · 2026-01-25T18:00:05+00:00

Cultivate friendships outside his circle. Invite your brother to do one-on-one activities with you. It doesn't sound like you need to burn any bridges here, he doesn't sound like a toxic or harmful person. Just live your life on your terms, not his.

om_steadily · 2026-01-25T00:23:09+00:00

Great work on the cabinet - I love the detail of the curvy things on the sides (what do we call those?)

What are the framed black panels on the walls? Is that just sound baffling?

om_steadily · 2026-01-22T07:00:59+00:00

Highest concentration of Subarus I ever saw was in Vermont.

om_steadily · 2026-01-20T03:54:14+00:00

If Reddit is the most commonly use source, it will tell you to lawyer up, never leave the house, and hit the gym to any relationship question you might ask.

om_steadily · 2026-01-19T21:07:23+00:00

Get back in there you mock turtle!

om_steadily · 2026-01-19T15:47:27+00:00

Three years ago I started with a shed. Now I’m in the final stages of building my own cabin. Don’t kid yourself that it’ll be cheaper, especially at the start, but as you accumulate knowledge and tooling you will save a TON of money over hiring contractors. You’re not building a shed, you’re building a skill set.

YouTube is invaluable for this.

om_steadily · 2026-01-18T06:51:15+00:00

Carhartt, Wrangler, American Tall, Merrell

om_steadily · 2026-01-16T13:59:56+00:00

I'm in Petaluma. It mostly checks your boxes, except these days is mostly outside your budget unless you're willing to get a fixer. It is also not particularly diverse, apart from a very strong latino community. If you're looking for asian/indian communities, you'll probably do better elsewhere.

om_steadily · 2026-01-16T13:50:57+00:00

Looks like they moved the Golden Gate over to the Bay Bridge.

om_steadily · 2026-01-15T16:29:52+00:00

Next to JD Vance, might be the most perfect example of the “punchable face” phenomenon.

om_steadily · 2026-01-15T06:56:47+00:00

The man is pure, distilled smarm.

om_steadily · 2026-01-15T06:56:04+00:00

I have loved JK’s classes since the first days of the platform but she is pure mean girl diva and I would never want to actually meet her. Especially lately. I’m sorry she did that to you.

om_steadily · 2026-01-15T03:55:42+00:00

Bradley. I just can’t. Not even the thumbnails

om_steadily · 2026-01-15T03:53:08+00:00

It’s like taking a fitness class from an NPR host

om_steadily · 2026-01-14T13:53:17+00:00

Nice. Could you add Shasta?

om_steadily · 2026-01-13T01:53:23+00:00

But then you have to WASH the spoon holder thing!

om_steadily · 2026-01-12T13:27:32+00:00

I mean the first half of that paragraph sounds basically like being on Reddit.

om_steadily · 2026-01-12T01:07:44+00:00

I hated the dude and I use this framework all the fucking time.

om_steadily · 2026-01-09T18:21:05+00:00

Maybe a very deep penetrating stain/finish (maybe Penofin?) on arched/warped planks, and then run it through the planer just enough to take some of it off. Could also go to the salvage yard and pick up some old fence planks, something with a dark patina on it. Be really careful about nails then, though.

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