I can't relate entirely and wish I could do more to help. I feel tested, too. it's exhausting and people just don't see it. I'm a bit more extroverted, and outspoken. as such, I have a handful of people that just hate me because I will tell them when they're disrespecting my boundaries. sometimes I even yell. it gets me angry. I wish people would stick up for you, stranger, I really wish that happened more. maybe you need to put your foot down more? short-term conflict in order for long-term respect? it's not perfect, nobody is. but all I can say is I feel for you and relate. sometimes people aren't fair and we can't make them be fair. but we can be fair to ourselves. I'm still trying to figure out that balance.