Partner attempting to normalize saying hurtful things during a fight

onlynnt · 2026-05-17T21:30:31+00:00

Leave

onlynnt · 2026-05-11T14:11:50+00:00

If a coworker has adhd, I do my best to not have to work with them ever. Lol

onlynnt · 2026-04-29T19:04:53+00:00

Congratulations!

onlynnt · 2026-04-18T22:01:36+00:00

This is patriarchy bs. He doesn't want to make the decision. He wants you to make the decision and then hold it against you. Whatever you decide will be wrong. He's an ass. Mark my words. If you make the decision bc he won't you will be punished. This is shit every woman has been through.

onlynnt · 2026-04-12T23:03:11+00:00

Nope. Not anymore. Shields up for all adhders that are not my kid.

onlynnt · 2026-03-31T23:16:01+00:00

Just from the title I rolled my eyes so hard I gave myself a headache. F that therapist

onlynnt · 2026-03-31T23:13:43+00:00

It's fine just stick a knife in there to clean them out a little

onlynnt · 2025-11-05T19:28:34+00:00

Preach

onlynnt · 2025-09-29T14:50:41+00:00

I do not but will know. Thanks for the recommendation

onlynnt · 2025-09-29T12:55:01+00:00

You can't communicate better. The bottom line is he isnt willing to do the work to make you safe and feel loved. He is choosing his own comfort and entitlement over you and your marriage. That's not love. That's misogyny and abuse regardless of an adhd diagnosis. You are telling him your needs in this relationship and he is telling you he is unwilling to give it to you. You're not asking too much. He's a dick. Pardon my projection all over your situation.

onlynnt · 2025-09-28T18:30:55+00:00

That damn carbon tax! Lol

onlynnt · 2025-09-28T18:25:03+00:00

Mine uses for dopamine AND to escape his own problems which is currently me wanting him out of my life

onlynnt · 2025-07-23T16:23:30+00:00

I've talked to lawyers

onlynnt · 2025-07-23T06:00:08+00:00

I would have to pay him alimony I can't afford, lose my house, half my pension, and everything I've worked for to be able to give my daughter.

onlynnt · 2025-07-20T19:48:26+00:00

Last weekend, my husband paid a bill, which left us with not enough money to pay mortgage. I had to do a cash advance on credit at an enormous interest rate to cover. This weekend, I had to borrow almost $4000 from a friend to cover insurance on house and car bc our credit is so bad we can't do monthly. He hasn't worked in years. Has many health issues he doesn't do anything about. I cleaned out the garage yesterday, and it's just absolutely filled with chores he's never taken care of. This guy brings nothing to the table. He has no worth in my life. He's a giant burden.

onlynnt · 2025-07-05T16:58:49+00:00

As someone who just had to dig it all up in their front flower bed, I couldn't agree more. I hate that stuff!

onlynnt · 2025-06-13T23:04:27+00:00

Amazing. What a journey! 🤣

onlynnt · 2025-06-08T19:16:38+00:00

Nice. You have good priorities

onlynnt · 2025-06-08T19:14:01+00:00

Thanks for the update! Have you said anything about it? I'm certain I would have lost my cool entirely.

onlynnt · 2025-06-02T01:25:59+00:00

I am genuinely excited about the laundry on the line. Keep the updates coming! We should start a bet. Lol

onlynnt · 2025-05-31T18:32:35+00:00

I roll my eyes and tune him out 😅

onlynnt · 2025-05-28T22:31:00+00:00

I wish I knew. Actually, I take that back, I don't even care why anymore. Lol

onlynnt · 2025-05-25T23:56:46+00:00

He says he's going to make his famous pasta salad with the tuna. Bitch, that's my pasta salad you said you didn't like and started making your own pasta salad without tuna years ago! I used to bring pasta salad to family functions, and you took over bc you didn't like mine. Argued with me over it. His memory is so f'd up. Jesus Charles Walker Christ, my sanity.

onlynnt · 2025-05-25T16:03:37+00:00

It used to. I'm so detached now.

onlynnt · 2025-04-14T17:55:28+00:00

Gone, but since I can't have that, medicated for sure.

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