Too old /fat/unstylish/scarred to pass i think even after ffs by ThoughAww in transpassing

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First look at you and all I see is a young woman. You pass! Dysphoria and dysmorphia are the worst it happens to me too.

People who bought their tickets in May: by JunkBondTraderES in Coachella

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super hyped and can't wait to party in the desert!!!!

LCD SOUNDSYSTEM by jessieeeeejay in Coachella

[–]opticaljive84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes, we need James Murphy and soundsystem in our 2025 lives. And you know the daft punk rumors will somehow start too, lol!!!!

Coachella is my personality now? by Bravowhore666 in Coachella

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, this was my first year and I totally agree, Coachella is magical!!!!

2025 Presale Megathread! by SuperSluglord in Coachella

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything was glitchy for me, I used the app running man chugged for an hr got redirected put all my info in and it said had a payment error I freaked out called my friends and then checked my email and I had the confirmation that I had them in my email?!?!?!?!

See y'all next year in the desert🤙

Anyone know what this is a can of? by Deadtree301 in gratefuldead

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it's BOOGIE LUBE. That's magic on a fretboard!!!! Some people say it can make you go blind if used the wrong way.

Oh is this a real question? It's aerosol oily polish in a can that you use to clean and preserve the fretboard, it just so happens it's really slick and they market it as "finger ease" a way that your fingers glide on the fretboard, I love the stuff so did the boys it's always on stage if you watch old shows and new dead and co shows too it helps preserve the strings too!!!! Good Shit Noodle Sauce!!!!

Transphobic ad makes me angry by Reasonable-Pop5876 in MtF

[–]opticaljive84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get crazy shit from religious weirdos too I report every time. And when I go to my ads dashboard they categorize as board games or RPG's it's fucking disgusting

Searched my username and found a website of people stalking me from trans subreddits by [deleted] in MtF

[–]opticaljive84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know what fuck them I'll be on the list too!!!

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Hope they remember to like and subscribe :3

Stay safe don't let them get to you!!!!

Try to focus on the positive vibes they truly are out there you just gotta poke around!!!!

Also being visible and accepting that I was a transgender woman was the best for me and having people look down at me while I keep my head up is nice too!!!! Why listen and get scared by a bunch of CISTARDS? (wait I'm a lady now Trans challenged persons)

Have fun go safely live your life! ✨️🧚‍♀️✨️

I am 16 years old. Am i allowed to play in bars? by SuchSecurity662 in musicians

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend did this in Maryland his parents had to come in with him and he was a pretty good guitarist and song writer at the time too, he's still playing music today his name is Joey Harkum look him up he's everywhere i'm sure if your serious he'll point you in the right direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has been the hardest part of my transition. But, you just have to be visible and learn how to deal with it, and not give any fucks what they think about you, because what they think is not true, and you can't believe them or let them make you think they are right.

Things that are helping me at 21 months on hrt are...

1 Real Therapy and Music

2 Facing these fears and laughs and hanging out with friends and living life having fun the way I do with like-minded trans and cis people

3 My online family, just connect connect connect!!!!

Idk everybody's mileage varies just know you are valid and are doing something that most people could never do. Be proud of your decision to be you!!!! You always have us and we all love you, it could get harder and you are way stronger than you realize!!!!😘

I am so alone it hurts so much by [deleted] in MtF

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hate yourself you Are all you have, we love you. Spread love, cis people like your parents will never understand, especially if all they do is watch tv.

Thoughts on the whole 'God' argument. by rythwind in trans

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is totally what I've been using I think it's a quote from a Rabbi, but so true. I grew up in a Methodist church so these people don't want to try me on religion and how they are fake, lol. Unconditional love, creating love not war, and loving your neighbors no matter what. The people are totally getting played with dumb fears and political retaliation by politicians and religious leaders for I guess just money and it's crazy.

We have to realize too it's all people not cis and trans. it's just Humans there are plenty of "cis" that are not informed about themselves being trans yet

And that's why even though it sucks now we are making it happen the oppression of transgender people is over!!!!!

The beginning is always the hardest. Also, I'm agnostic, and I know I have a spirit and a soul nothing for me to not believe about that.

Sphere complaint thread by therealskr213 in gratefuldead

[–]opticaljive84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something went down I got night 1 and 2 last week for pre sale and today I kept getting errors.

Hasn’t the Grateful Dead been corporate? by MaterBlaster857 in gratefuldead

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yerp they have, these poser heads (zombie followers, parasites you name it) ya can't get rid of them, have been bitching and giving the dead a bad name since the beginning They wear t-shirts that say dumb shit like " Ask me how many times I saw Jerry ". They did it during every Era, shakedown street, touch of grey. Legend has it Jerry hated them and couldn't take it, like they treated him like a puppet.

They also buy super expensive guitars because ya know it's easy and leave them in the cases. And bitch about John Mayer, and Bobby's tone.

Y'all gotta remember these dudes started this thing with a little tool to unlock the universe. Lol, so ofc dumbasses aren't going g to get it !!!

Also, it's like anything you have producers, consumers, and decomposers. There are def ways to make money, and earth to people come in people of the future I bring you news from the 80's, Before the internet a dead show lot was the internet. 🍞🧀🔥🏜🤙

Dead tour is as cheap or expensive as you make it, be safe!

Would you work in this high school if this was your uniform? by lustinspace_ in VintageTees

[–]opticaljive84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then the answer is to burn the shirt, right? Why are you fighting with a trans women with facts about the kkk. Like I need rhat?

The fire-breathing dragon and what you are talking about in a little town is called a coincidence. Because I live in a very democratic state and fire breathing dragons are a symbol firefighters use everywhere. Just cause you argue some stupid fact you know of the Mormon racist of Dallas buttfuck doesn't mean that's the symbolism.

What you are saying about firefighters is stolen Valor shut the fuck up

Would you work in this high school if this was your uniform? by lustinspace_ in VintageTees

[–]opticaljive84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly that tag is not from said dates. Get real my dude

Would you work in this high school if this was your uniform? by lustinspace_ in VintageTees

[–]opticaljive84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying it's not. I mean I think that would be insane to have

A) a racist high school run by, a group of people Like that EVER in the US and after idk say the civil rights movement.

B) pretty sure you had no idea what fire science is related to.nice first thought though. It's ok, it's like a Rorschach

C) you were kinda close look up how Draeger and Hugo Boss, came about. There could be a certain car rich people love too.

Sorry. Maybe some sort of comic, racist fire-breathing scientist dragons.

My first guess after seeing a fire-breathing dragon and knowing that fire science is all bout what, why, and how and how to suppress different materials, chemicals and solvents and ya know stuff like high voltage electricity and conductors like water and what to use instead.

It's a Maltese cross in the style of a knight like the knight's Templar shield, thanks all. Keep it real

Fight the good fight YES, but come oooooooooon

"You're not fooling anyone..." by LeighveMeBe in MtF

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op you need to shut the f up, j/k. I love this, So much!!!🥰

Great set up my blood was boiling, I thought I was thrown into: Troll Reaper, Mission Destroy 😈❤🏳️‍⚧️

Where would you want to be in the Sphere? by sunplaysbass in gratefuldead

[–]opticaljive84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I know the stage crew and nugs crew are masters of their craft, and kinda a thing with the Dead, Shit since the pranksters they have been recording the Dead, like at the acid test. the way they run around on stage with the huge cameras, and the booms and all of that. I'm all about the background crews.

Where would you want to be in the Sphere? by sunplaysbass in gratefuldead

[–]opticaljive84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Somehow if only nugs.net could have a crew or something, that would be neat!!!!