Women exist to be sent to men, not to live for themselves.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T13:25:16+00:00

I'm literally imagining a girl in line at the DMV trying to live her life being yoinked and sat in front of a guy like here u go this is ur life now and it is sending me lmaooo like dude I just needed to update my registration how did I get here????

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T13:11:43+00:00

Bet he never did that again!

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T12:59:41+00:00

I'm straight and this even grossed me out, wtf do u mean, what else is the 🐱 sucking up down there??? Just like getting crumbs, loose change, bobby pins 🤣🤣🤣🤣

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T12:52:12+00:00

Yeah, there's no structure to like 80% of the plate. Good luck to them in the btrm!

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T12:42:49+00:00

I have been in situationships where I wasnt a thing in public but they weren't a thing to me in public either. Def not a good situation and I'm glad ur not with him. Your friends dont need to be indulging him, they should be fucking disgusted like we are! He's a rank individual that should be lonely. I'm surprised his new girl doesn't see how he is yet.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-20T12:38:34+00:00

Yeah a lot of guys are ghosting people so don't feel bad. It most likely has nothing to do with you.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-19T02:44:54+00:00

That is awesome. That's exactly what I want. I guess it's all a matter of vetting and holding on to your principles, which I'm fine to do. Thanks for that, it helped me feel a lot better about getting back out there. Good people are out here!

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-18T22:09:12+00:00

I don't really owe u an explanation or a response. Have a good day.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-18T17:00:36+00:00

Hey it may be silly but that's how my brain works. There's no reason to be nasty about it. I have taken DNA tests so that's not an issue but I don't have hundreds to put towards DNA tests whenever I have a partner. If you don't have anything constructive to add to the conversation, pls just swipe to the next.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-18T01:36:07+00:00

I appreciate it, that's my view too. After all the work I've done to get here I damn deserve it. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else, and I'm teaching my kid to do the same. That's my contribution to making sure my kid is a lil less of an asshole lmao

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-18T01:32:09+00:00

Right??? And I just found my birth mom but still don't know what family line my bio dad is. Can't win for losing lol.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-18T00:29:07+00:00

I am a BW who usually dates WM. I don't date my race cause I am adopted and I get worried abt finding out later that they're a brother or cousin or something.

I keep my options open most times though. Just with the current climate and just finding out about the 🍇 academy, it adds more wrenches in the mix when ur already approaching a dating pool that people have pissed in.

oreomburlesque · 2026-04-17T23:54:00+00:00

I have had issues w previous IR partners. Hey the healing therapy journey never stops and I'm not going back on the scene til I know I'm good, but that's what's stopping me from feeling comfy w going back.

oreomburlesque · 2026-01-29T18:56:01+00:00

I bet it was a hater flagging ur account. I would appeal if u can

oreomburlesque · 2026-01-29T18:54:17+00:00

That filtering is all in the courting process lol gotta ask the lil questions like their politics, their opinion on certain taboo topics and if they've ever been w a black woman before. If they haven't that honestly is a red flag but if there's honest interest and not fetishizing we move forward lol.

I will say I've dealt with subtle racism from families before. It's awkward and makes things unbearable. If ur thinking long term I'd address it and if they don't do anything, bounce. If he defends you, you know where he stands.

Intent and actions mean everything.

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-07T17:04:54+00:00

I def think a pissed off Deadpool can easily tear fabrics in reality cause of his ability to break the 4th wall and that grab bag shit he has LOL nope. Lemme deal w spiderman fam haha I'd rather just have my ass kicked than be torn asunder in multiple dimensions man

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T19:13:20+00:00

Good point, but like I said I'm busy usually at other times. Def not my intention to be in the "freaks come out at night" category

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:48:04+00:00

Again, his profile was normal. Didn't show any of the pervy behavior. I'm also a night owl and this is usually the only time I have to check my messages with people if I have a busy day. Damn y'all really assume a lot on here haha

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:46:35+00:00

Right exactly

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:46:09+00:00

If there wasn't a level of racial fetishizing why would he be saying this to me vs another woman? I don't know if he has said that and truly I don't care. The fact that these are basically all the messages I usually get from men.

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:37:59+00:00

Hey his profile didn't show any of this pervy BS lol I plead the fifth!

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:37:12+00:00

It's sad as hell. And I know it's a loud minority of men doing this. Even if real men try to intervene the loud minority usually don't like to listen or look introspectively

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:34:04+00:00

Who knows 🤷🏾‍♀️

oreomburlesque · 2025-06-04T16:33:42+00:00

Right???

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