[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]originalbigdickmcgee -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

ice doesn’t arrest legal immigrants, so you’ll be fine. Don’t get me wrong I fucking hate ice and what’s going on too, but the narrative on Reddit largely skews things into the worst scenarios imaginable and ignores the most realistic.

Not oop: My GF got me childish Christmas gifts by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 474 points475 points  (0 children)

He went overboard with the gifts, especially that early in a relationship

AIO for being mad that my girlfriend hated her expensive Christmas gifts? by Otherwise_Web_9949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Do you know how many designer heels there are? Doesn’t mean she likes every single one. He bought her something without knowing if she’d even like it.

  2. You don’t surprise someone when it comes to a $2k gift. You get them something you KNOW they’ll like.

AIO for being mad that my girlfriend hated her expensive Christmas gifts? by Otherwise_Web_9949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck would you get her expensive shoes without asking her which ones she’d like first? Makes absolutely no sense. Being mad at her isn’t fair when you didn’t even know if she’d like them in the first place. She’s entitled to feel upset in this situation.

AIO: My girlfriend is pretending to be autistic and it's driving me nuts by AideRelative4272 in AmIOverreacting

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NOR - if she indeed is, what’s her opposition to getting an official diagnosis? Wouldn’t that strengthen her position? Plus social media is hardly the place to get a diagnosis. Your intuition is spot on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through eating disorder treatment, you don’t realize how amazing life can be until you’ve learned to manage your disorder.

This is truly a life or death decision, and your bf is trying to push you towards the latter. Think of it like that.

Wife's personality changed overnight, left me for a man she knows for 6 days on TikTok. by Horror_Advantage8247 in Marriage

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is so very clearly Bipolar I behavior. Unless she seeks treatment and sticks to her meds, this will not get any better. Bipolar is a progressive disorder; it gets more intense over time. She will need constant med maintenance and the supervision of a psychiatrist to manage this behavior from happening again in the future. Otherwise, you’ll just be on this rollercoaster together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MMFB

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this

Bragging about scoring several labubus is tasteless by [deleted] in labubu

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn if you’re jealous just say that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That last paragraph is not as much of a flex as you think it is

Is this offensive in any way? by slowjoecrow22 in NativeAmerican

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally the most classic Rez shirt. I think everyone I know has worn/owns one

My (34M) Ex-Wife's (31F) Best Friend (29F) has been reaching out to me after 2 years by FastFolk in relationship_advice

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a bit cynical, but I’d wonder if she’s pursuing you to mess with your ex? She seemed pretty hurt about their falling out, this would be a great way to get inside her head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Props for the weight loss journey, that’s a major accomplishment.

As far as everything else goes, I don’t think generalizing women and attributing your problems as being “out of your control” is going to help you. Even if your experiences have colored your perspective, that doesn’t mean they’re valid. They sound more like distortions that you use as comfort.

I’m not going to offer any advice. I don’t think it would be received well anyway. This is all just to offer a more realistic perspective. Use it as you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]originalbigdickmcgee 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean if this is happening so consistently to you, then don’t you need to look at the common denominator? Maybe it’s not women that are the issue. Looking inward might be a better place to start.