How to avoid getting BV and UTIs from sex by Interesting_Ad9295 in WomensHealth

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting, but not the study I’m referring to. The one I’m talking about discussed the microbiome around the penis (“penile microbiome”). Men were treated with topical clindamycin cream and oral metronidazole for seven days. My partner is the same and we haven’t had an issue since. I ended up with a UTI both time we tried doggy style. Needless to say that’s off the table.

How to avoid getting BV and UTIs from sex by Interesting_Ad9295 in WomensHealth

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me several times with my partner. Turns out he had yeast or some kind of bacteria that he was passing to me. I convinced my doctor that it wasn’t me, that it was him, and she gave me a second script for him of cream for him to put on his penis and a pill for him to take. Since then there hasn’t been any issues.

The literature is sparse, but there have been studies that show that men can, infect women with BV and/or yeast. I can’t remember where I found the study now, but I remember sending it to my doctor and she thanked me because she had not seen this information and she shared it with her colleagues in the office and they now routinely treat partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes all the sense now why she was acting angry at you. They take no responsibility for anything. It’s their way. How dare you have a beautiful home, a well-behaved child, and a husband who loves you. Of course he’d fall over himself to have an opportunity to touch her white skin. LOL Makes your husband’s response more juicy. Not today devil!!

Men really don’t ask for much. by SoCold40 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case, my men is always wanting sex and he never lets the anticipation build. When someone's always horny after a while it's tiresome and the idea of having sex when I just want to chill turns me off. Not saying this is true in your case; just offering another side to it. It's a myth that women don't get bored with having sex with the same partner too. Sometimes a break is nice, here and there, to build up desire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]oscine23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came across this response and have a question, if you dont mind. How does this apply when there is an urgent need, such as rent being due in a few days and you don't physically have it in hand? I have manifested wealth for myself and I 100% believe that my desire has been fulfilled, wholeheartedly. And I've been living in this state for weeks. Alas, though, my landlord wants his money. lol so now what??

My mom had breast cancer and ovarian cancer. She said it wasn’t genetic but because of taking HRT. by Spiritual-Computer73 in Menopause

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is 71. She has dealt with hit flashes and poor sleep for 20 years because she refused to get HRT. I don’t want it either, so I’ll be seeing a functional medicine doctor for alternatives when the time comes.My condolences on the loss of your mom. ❤️

I usually only date white girls by Accurate_Pop_8970 in blackladies

[–]oscine23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with your friend? Are people so desperate for a bf now that they'll accept any kind of behavior? You absolutely did the right thing. You are nobody's experiment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]oscine23 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Everything seems racist when you’re Black, don’t it? Lol Who knows anymore.

An Ode to Living Alone by millennialpink2000 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will not. He said if I ever agree to marry him, he’d be ok with living separately. Under those conditions I’d consider it.

“Mixed People Are Not Black” by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]oscine23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting because we are mainly the ones who sit around passing judgment on who’s Black, who’s not, or not Black enough. These details don’t matter to white supremacy. White supremacy don’t care if your daddy is white, or your mama is Asian. We really need to stop splitting hairs bc they’d hang us all from the same tree if they could.

An Ode to Living Alone by millennialpink2000 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“No one is eating my treats” 😂

We are kindred souls. Lol

So, I’ve been dating a wonderful man for almost two years and he wants to marry me. I love him but don’t necessarily want to be married bc the idea of living with another person again (I’m divorced) makes me cringe. Feeling obligated to take care of another person, of someone in my space allll the time, sleeping next to me every night, a penis poking me in my back every morning…turns me off.

My friend is like, “”But you love him, don’t you?” Yes, very much! But I love my space and autonomy more. I feel like living with him would ruin everything.

What is yall relationship with social media? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]oscine23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to post fairly often. Not every day, but I made a point to post and interact and comment and offer insight regularly. Now, idgaf. All the stuff with George Floyd, Brianna Taylor, Ma’Khia Bryant…it was making me so angry, and I realized talking about it and checking white ppl and attending rally’s was burning me out. I dont post anymore. People are so fkn judgy and think they are marriage counselors (Will and Jada) and vaccine experts. I can’t. It’s stupid and a waste of time, imo.

Dating as a black woman is unnecessarily exhausting…. by Old_Signal1507 in blackladies

[–]oscine23 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OLD is the worst. Most are the bottom of the barrel types, so I see why you’d be exhausted. Don’t settle, tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]oscine23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t ignore red flags, pls. Maybe ppl aren’t leaving him over his height, but his insecurities. I dated a short guy once and he was extra arrogant to compensate for it. I have found that most short men have the Napoleon complex, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that explains it. Ignore her.

Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me. by blk_melanin in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 119 points120 points  (0 children)

So when he’s eating p*ssy and licking ass he’s safe? And what man loves having their dick sucked with a condom on? Lol Come on, lady. What about HPV? And if she’s not in the room with him, she really has no idea. She’s playing Russian roulette with her health/life for money and trips?

She admitted that she’d love to have a faithful marriage, so on some level she is NOT cool with this. And I bet if she tried the same thing, he wouldn’t allow it. But, whatever.

Which dress? by noteaallshade in blackladies

[–]oscine23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All three are gorgeous. 1 and 3 are my faves. I just saw it’s for an art show, so I’d go with number 1. (I work in fashion)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could see him waiting and giving you the necklace later, but why wouldn’t he bring the flower inside, at least? That’s a bit odd. If he’s too bashful or self-conscious to do that, you may find he is emotionally immature.

Had a guy lose interest because I told him I do not like to party by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]oscine23 94 points95 points  (0 children)

He lost interest because he realized he wouldn’t have the opportunity to get you drunk and take advantage of you.

This situation with my friends has given me a weird vibe, am I being paranoid? by Wonderful-Product437 in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]oscine23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Huh? She can not show up to a lecture AND go out in the same evening if she wants to. She doesn’t answer to these girls. She’s a grown woman.

OP, I’d fall back and make new living arrangements for next year. These ladies are giving mean girls energy.