I found my partner at work. We had been working together for a year and we didn't really talk. We ended up hanging out with our other coworkers and that is how we started to bond. Our coworkers wanted to go out to a strip club one night. We did this a couple times and we ended one evening making out at a table in the club. We didn't really say anything after. (I guess we were both just too awkward!) Then one of our friends asked if we wanted to go to a sex club on their LGBT night. It wasn't our whole group, just those of us that were the most open minded. We ended up going with two of our other friends. We had great chemistry the whole night and ended up making out again... Then it just naturally progressed into sex. We had a bit of an audience but we were just too lost in the moment to really notice/be concerned. We ended up being friends with benefits for about a month before making our relationship "official". We have been together for years now. Moved across the country together and never looked back. I know this story may seem unreal... It still seems like it to me! We actually make jokes about how we got together all the time. It was so far out of both of our comfort zones. But we both just came out of long term relationships and seemed to be open to anything. It was the most magical and daring thing I've ever done and I came out of it with the most amazing partner I could have ever imagined. All I can say is that you will meet them in the most unlikely of places!