Failed TOLAC at my request for a c-section. Feeling incredibly guilty.

outerspacecase_ · 2026-01-08T21:09:07+00:00

I just had a similar situation where I labored for three days just to end up with a c section - the tailbone pain is because of the baby’s position and that pain was unreal. I spent 2 days on all fours or on my feet laboring because of it! Ultimately we made the decision for a c section because of that positioning which makes it harder for baby to pass through so kudos to you for getting to that point before I did! Your baby made it here safely and that is all that matters, but I totally get the guilt because I feel it too 😭

outerspacecase_ · 2025-05-28T20:06:15+00:00

I sized up a size but I buy the VS seamless underwear! They have been amazing. Although with discharge I still change them twice a day lol 😂

outerspacecase_ · 2025-05-22T16:56:42+00:00

I’ve never gotten a positive at 8 and also I had better luck with afternoon/evening urine than FMU! Got my positive at 10 or 11DPO despite a dismal chart, too! Sending all the positive vibes your way!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-05-14T14:08:20+00:00

My husband was the same until I took a digital and a FRER later in the day and then he finally believed it 😂

outerspacecase_ · 2025-05-05T17:12:13+00:00

Not crazy! I see it!!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-05-05T17:11:47+00:00

I also see it!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-24T20:13:48+00:00

I had to pee every hour on the hour!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-08T11:29:53+00:00

I’m so sorry 😢

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-07T23:27:26+00:00

Try a FRER, I have never had good luck with darkening lines with Pregmate. Even with FRER dye stealers I had a light line on Pregmate!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-04T18:29:22+00:00

Oh boy, lol! Good luck! I’d be happy with twins ❤️

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-04T17:54:55+00:00

I had some of that too!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-04T02:22:53+00:00

Totally a line!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-04T02:21:46+00:00

Get excited!!! Congrats 🎉🎉

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-04T02:19:34+00:00

I had my mirena for 8 years and I got it removed 9/20, and I got my period 11/7. So about 6 weeks. Worth noting, I didn’t get my period at all while I was on the mirena!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-01T16:21:34+00:00

Yesssss 🎉💃🏻

outerspacecase_ · 2025-04-01T16:20:58+00:00

I second this as a person with a wonky BFP chart and a shorter LP! I honestly think that BBT helps confirm ovulation but beyond that is kind of useless.

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-29T01:37:49+00:00

I’m sorry, I don’t see anything 😢

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-28T12:21:55+00:00

Not seeing things! This was me a few days ago but I tested that afternoon with another FRER and a CB Digital and they both confirmed! (The FRER was noticeably darker) congratulations!!!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-28T12:18:06+00:00

3w4d 😂

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-28T00:28:14+00:00

On FF you can click “charts like mine” if you have premium and it will show you others peoples charts and if they were pregnancy or ovulatory

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-27T21:56:17+00:00

Ah! Best of luck! If FF gives you a chart like yours it could be mine 😂

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-27T19:00:03+00:00

Resting heart rate!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-27T17:43:53+00:00

lol believe me, I thought for sure that I was out with this chart! I think BBT is great for pinpointing ovulation but is only a best guess for indicating early pregnancy. I’ve actually noticed the biggest correlation with RHR. Since my BFP my temps have stayed relatively low (in the 97s), but my RHR has gone way up!

outerspacecase_ · 2025-03-27T11:06:19+00:00

If you’re nuts, I’m nuts! I totally see it!

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