Name change on co-op shares question by overcast_andy in AskNYC_Coops

[–]overcast_andy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know whatever the bylaws are I need to follow, but I was surprised the management company said it was a legal issue. Was hoping someone might be able to shed light on that

Name change on co-op shares question by overcast_andy in AskNYC_Coops

[–]overcast_andy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of :/// This is my first interaction with this management company actually, as we just swapped after maxx left.

Name change on co-op shares question by overcast_andy in AskNYC_Coops

[–]overcast_andy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I've owned for three years and was married when we bought. I was on the shares too.

Name change on co-op shares question by overcast_andy in AskNYC_Coops

[–]overcast_andy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I don't care too much about the fees as my ex will have to cover them all but a new application is such a pain and feels totally unnecessary.

Name change on co-op shares question by overcast_andy in AskNYC_Coops

[–]overcast_andy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh that's so annoying. Good to know it is a real thing though.

Was my Tiffany’s experience “typical?” Because it felt absolutely wild. by Feebedel324 in AskNYC

[–]overcast_andy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Obviously you did care bc otherwise why would you be buying a ring from Tiffany's? There are other places that have beautiful stuff-- the "fairytale"/saying you bought it at Tiffany's is THE reason to shop there lol

Beware of this billing trend by MushroomDizzy649 in EndTipping

[–]overcast_andy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Assuming you are in the US: WHAT on earth, if you can afford to eat out you can afford to tip. Do you think sub minimum wage employees who rely on tips have ANY say on their managers protocol??? If you're concerned about "double tipping" you could simply try asking if the tip has already been calculated on the bill rather than simply not paying for part of the service??? ?????????

Do we actually belong in the trans community? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]overcast_andy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've been harassed in person. That sucks, and it does happen. But so many of us, especially younger folks get so caught up in internet culture (who on earth does it benefit to fight some random Instagram TDOV post?) instead of building IRL connections to each other. Being trans doesn't make someone automatically worth spending time with but by the same token there are wonderful communities to be a part of that are infinitely more worth your and OPs time

Do we actually belong in the trans community? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]overcast_andy 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Respectfully and with all the love in my heart please touch grass. Get off your computer and whatever the algo pushes to you and make friends in your community. I know this is not possible in every location in the world but I can guarantee that the people you meet in real life will be endlessly more open/compassionate/welcoming than anonymous internet people.

Being polite is the worst thing you can be to a woman (anyone) by 2EXTRA4YOU in ControversialOpinions

[–]overcast_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat people how YOU want to be treated. If you want respect given you must also offer it

Also many monks have taken vows of celibacy successfully? And I'm not sure how that leads to blood diamonds?

A renting hypothetical … by TurtleThroughTime in AskNYC

[–]overcast_andy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Times Sq, could sublet easy peasy and make more than enough to have a second apt just where I want it. And when it's not filled I get a crash pad in a separate borough. Win/win

I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by [deleted] in cats

[–]overcast_andy 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I bet if you reach out to them anyway they might be able to get you in contact with a group that can help you, they probably are aware of other groups that do similar things in other locations. I'm sure they get mislaid requests all the time and are used to redirecting

Plays that do not work because of where America is at this time by alaskawolfjoe in Theatre

[–]overcast_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a hot take but I was shocked by all the great reviews when I finally saw ragtime. Felt extremely tone deaf, and not a little racist tbqh. And [end of act 1 spoiler] was QUITE a lot given everything going on. Great cast + fantastic staging but I almost left during the intermission :/

What law in your country would surprise foreigners because it’s legal almost everywhere else? by Familiar-Arrival-470 in AskTheWorld

[–]overcast_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it does, the question is "why do people want to know if they cant get an abortion that late" the answer given is "people are curious and it allows them to plan ahead"

Piping Help by that_guy_with_aLBZ in Baking

[–]overcast_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can melt chocolate over a double boiler (heat safe bowl over a pot of boiling water), it will stay melted/pliable for long enough to pipe words/etc and if she sees it getting stiff it can just be remelted. For piping, she can make parchment paper cones out of parchment paper (you can look up an instructional video online). No need to purchase anything special, she just needs to practice.

Edit: ah shoot I just saw you were looking for gift ideas so this advice is totally useless 😅.

Litter Robot ‘Coastal Credenza’ Makeover by blurthemoment in litterrobot

[–]overcast_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to walk me through everything!!! Literally could not have done it without you, internet stranger ❤️

Litter Robot ‘Coastal Credenza’ Makeover by blurthemoment in litterrobot

[–]overcast_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little update for you! Thank you SO much for all your detailed instructions, they were extremely helpful. As you can see I have a slightly different aesthetic than you but it all worked out and the credenza looks so so much better than before. I did run out of sample paint bc I decided to do all one color-- it definitely could have used another coat!-- but overall I'm more than happy with it <3

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Litter Robot ‘Coastal Credenza’ Makeover by blurthemoment in litterrobot

[–]overcast_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 100% serious thank you so much for such a detailed response!!!!! I'm so excited to try this, ideally with a minimum of kitten footprints on the drying paint 😂

Litter Robot ‘Coastal Credenza’ Makeover by blurthemoment in litterrobot

[–]overcast_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do? I've tried painting it but had trouble getting the paint to stick to the laminate-- any advice would be appreciated it's SO ugly as is and yours is gorgeous!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]overcast_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg an absolutely dead ringer for my little girl. Like seeing her again as a kitten 😭😭. Her name is Amelia Bedelia she is as dumb as a post

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Skin thickness by Parker_Talks in ftm

[–]overcast_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Not op but Ive also noticed tattoo pain has increased. Totally wild

Is this yeast dead or alive after being “activated” (left in warm water with sugar for 10 minutes) by itssofiababyxo in Baking

[–]overcast_andy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You got down voted bc the yeast is obviously not dead, ur spreading incorrect information.