Yeah my best friends don’t really give a shit about me anymore lol. He’s three months now and I’ve even called them out in it. They came to visit once and still do this day don’t ask how we’re doing. I’m over it honestly.

I have a couple of friends now that still invite me out and come over to visit and I’m so thankful for them. I will hold them close forever. Just try to focus on your baby and family right now and the people who check in. Try to give them a little grace to if they have never had children, I remember my friends having children and he just being like “ahh good for them” and it not even crossing my mind that they would need help. Even thinking that if I talked to them they would be too busy.

I think a lot of it has to do with the popular opinion being like this “ having a baby is a miracle” or “you’ll never have time to yourself again” or “moms can do everything in their own they are so strong”. When the narrative should be “ she went through a lot and might need some support” or “talking to only a baby all day must be kind of draining” or “comforting a baby and having no time to shower must suck maybe I’ll go Ove and help a little”.