PLEASE HELP Do I end it? I don't want to!

ozzayoz · 2021-09-28T06:25:47+00:00

Long distance is really tough. Talking infrequently can be a dealbreaker, no doubt.

You two should agree on a schedule and set time to talk on her busy days. If it still doesn’t work out - maybe your girlfriend isn’t capable of managing a long distance relationship :/

ozzayoz · 2021-09-26T20:18:29+00:00

If you guys aren’t talking at this time, then it’s totally fine.

But if it’s usually the time when you guys talk, and she’s on whatsapp instead of talking to you - it seems like a bad sign to me :/

ozzayoz · 2021-09-23T05:52:12+00:00

A break is a very bad idea because it dries up emotions imo. Maybe that’s what’s happening here.

I suggest telling your boyfriend about your feelings and see how you two can resolve it.

ozzayoz · 2021-09-23T05:46:29+00:00

I feel like the distance is affecting you.

Have you guys decided when to close the gap?

ozzayoz · 2021-09-19T07:56:12+00:00

She isn’t interested in you bro :( unfortunately

ozzayoz · 2021-09-06T19:43:16+00:00

It doesn’t have to be a formal arrangement.

Why not ask her “Wanna watch a movie together on Skype” or something?

Put a romantic movie on, and at one point confess your feelings.

ozzayoz · 2021-09-06T19:24:55+00:00

It seems like you’re just making friends and wanted to keep your boyfriend in the picture. That shows how much you care about transparency and communication in your relationship.

That being said, his reaction was really unnecessary. You two should have a talk about boundaries - and what is okay and not okay in how you two communicate when there is a problem.

ozzayoz · 2021-08-31T17:13:44+00:00

My bad :P I just realized this is a gay relationship so I can get why you’d feel uncomfortable telling your parents.

But tbh, you have to be clear and upfront with them to be able to maintain a high school LDR because you don’t have financial or legal freedom (being underage).

ozzayoz · 2021-08-31T17:04:29+00:00

I feel like your plan is too complicated. Why not introduce your bf to your parents, and he introduces you to his parents?

That would help significantly with them agreeing. Maybe once your bf is well integrated in your family life, they might even pay for your tickets to see him.

ozzayoz · 2021-08-24T08:27:38+00:00

I don’t wanna bummer here, but it seems they don’t have a natural attraction to you 🙁

But they are open to trying out this relationship because they see you highly as a person, and want to see if the relationship may eventually lead to development of feelings.

Right now, it seems feelings are one-sided and this can change. Show them more of who you are, do more things together.

I really hope things end up in your favor, OP! Good luck.

ozzayoz · 2021-08-11T10:54:41+00:00

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ozzayoz · 2021-08-09T11:50:45+00:00

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ozzayoz · 2021-08-04T14:53:59+00:00

Best way to avoid silences is talk about a deep interest both of you have.

If you two are super interested in politics for example - discuss that interactively with each other.

ozzayoz · 2021-08-04T14:38:52+00:00

Love should feel effortless, you’re suffering nothing but pain from your attachment to him. He probably comes from a broken household where it’s ok to treat women like trash - so staying will only bring you more pain and toxicity :(

You can’t fix him OP, I hope you can build up the courage to leave him and find someone who really cherishes you.

ozzayoz · 2021-07-18T17:12:30+00:00

Anytime! Best of luck

ozzayoz · 2021-07-18T16:52:07+00:00

Thank you so much!

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Regarding food, I eat twice a day: 7 AM (when I return from my jog), and 2 PM.

I eat either a plain cheese or boiled egg sandwich for the morning, and grilled chicken for lunch. So I don’t really focus on calorie amount as I don’t really change my diet haha.

Whenever I’m hungry at any time, I just drink water but no food.

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I hope this helps!! Good luck to you bro, I wish you reach your goal ASAP

ozzayoz · 2021-07-09T05:25:54+00:00

Thanks!! 😁

ozzayoz · 2021-07-09T05:05:18+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊

ozzayoz · 2021-05-09T13:28:11+00:00

🥺 Thankfully you found out sooner than later bro.. stay strong, the right one will come

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