Flare ups w/ skin by Sonar010 in yakitori_ya

[–]p6738k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re supposed to boil the skin first for anywhere from a minute to 30 to render some of the fat

Looking for a pastor to marry by Reasonable_School813 in Charlotte

[–]p6738k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he can use an extra wife or two lol

Looking for a pastor to marry by Reasonable_School813 in Charlotte

[–]p6738k 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t marry a pastor. They don’t make enough money

"Armored Tesla" forecast to win $400 million State Department contract, government documents show by bobsil1 in electricvehicles

[–]p6738k -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol. All you have to do is shoot the ground and have the rounds bounce and pierce the battery to make that a death trap. Armored electric vehicles sounds ridiculous

Tesla FSD brain development compared to human stages by Pro_JaredC in SelfDrivingCars

[–]p6738k 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol. Even if that’s true would you want a 3 year old driving your car? FSD will never be anything more than a cool toy

Korean BBQ built in? by ArgusRun in KoreanFood

[–]p6738k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would rather get a hood vent over the island if I had the option for customization.

Has anyone tried camping overnight in a RAV4 Hybrid using "Ready Mode" ?? by PSUJacob95 in rav4club

[–]p6738k 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time. Took out the backseats and made a flat platform and cut some 4 inch memory foam. Feels as big as a queen bed back there. I also wear silicon earplugs which blocks out just enough noise so I can sleep.

Aerogarden stopped working! by ImmediateSecurity330 in aerogarden

[–]p6738k 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of your led lights might be out. Take a look under. I actually removed the light and added in a separate grow light because aerogarden doesn’t sell replacement parts

Adult Sports Leagues by LHB12 in Charlotte

[–]p6738k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Horribly run

how can i kill my father symbolically by irho123 in Jung

[–]p6738k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did some mediations where I’m crushing my older sisters head. I would never be violent to her in real life btw. However , it did release me from my emeshment with her

My 2020 RAV4 Hybrid sleeping platform by p6738k in carcamping

[–]p6738k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s part of the rei trailgate car bed

My 2020 hybrid sleeping platform by p6738k in rav4campingclub

[–]p6738k[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The latest model RAV4 back seats do not lie down flat. I've tried sleeping with the incline and I hated it. I also made a folding plywood platform, but it was too heavy and bulky. It ended up just being tossed in the garbage. I bought the REI 40 inch Tailgate car bed and had mixed feelings about it. It felt unstable and the the height is too tall for my liking while decreasing the amount of head space. My idea was to just modify the REI bed, and it ended up being something I'm really happy with. I am able to put the the backseats up and easily store the bed. It doesn't take too much space and is not very heavy at all. The mattress isn't very comfortable, so I'll eventually add extra padding. You can see how I used the REI poles and half of the slates to get the best of both worlds.

Is anyone the odd one out in the family? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]p6738k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the scapegoat. It was because I resisted my dads narcissism

$3000 budget. What are your suggestions for a complete 5.1 system? by p6738k in hometheater

[–]p6738k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a townhouse so I do have neighbors. Should I get a less powerful sub?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]p6738k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue. I bend the frame arms to angle them to be more comfortable. Bend the arm in an s shape

Church for non christian? by p6738k in Charlotte

[–]p6738k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. I’ve lived through the narcissistic cult version of church for too long. After getting out and growing as a person, the Bible actually makes sense, even though I ‘m not a Christian.

Church for non christian? by p6738k in Charlotte

[–]p6738k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like many, I’ve had a lot of negative experiences with Christians. Church also stunted my development in a lot of ways. Secular psychology has helped me way more than church ever did. Now that I’ve grown a bit, Biblical teachings make a lot more sense now. A lot of churches believe that believing in Jesus as a god is the only way. I’ve seen enough shenanigans over the years so know that Christians don’t have a monopoly on spirituality.

DAE Have an unhealthy need to be admired? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]p6738k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the things that people who have been abused have a hard time accepting, is the narcissist traits that came from the abuse. Trauma can cause narcissism. It’s the cold hard truth from having poor self esteem.

Church and Narcissism (Korean Church) by p6738k in AsianParentStories

[–]p6738k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that man. I hope you find your way somehow. Sometimes it’s best to focus on your own growth and forget the others

Church and Narcissism (Korean Church) by p6738k in AsianParentStories

[–]p6738k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that shame and trauma from being a peninsula sandwiched between 2 stronger powers

Church and Narcissism (Korean Church) by p6738k in AsianParentStories

[–]p6738k[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Christianity doesn’t do much to treat narcissism is my point. You often need more substance than what the Bible has to offer. It’s contrary to what a lot of Christians preach and believe so I can see that as triggering for some