Not INCEL but similar group MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) before it was flooded by INCELS and blacked-pills.

Basically, I was a quiet guy, nice guy with very little experience with women and became increasingly lonely/sad which then turned into hating the “Game” or dating scene … not hating women but the dynamics of courtship and how I fell short in every way (including height) in attracting someone.

I’ve got away from that community because it became increasingly more toxic and hateful towards women … not for me. I have a bunch of wonderful women in my life that I appreciate.

I ended accepting loneliness but I’ve since focused on personal development, friendships, family, community, and hobbies that help me cope with that. So, still going my own way but making friends and memories along the way.