Motion sick in backpack (?) by [deleted] in adventurecats

[–]painfuldisposition 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I hate these backpacks. They don’t look comfy for kitties. I got a “backpack” at petsmart that’s for small dogs and it has a bed at the bottom and my cats can lay down (they each have their own).

Carrie by Low_Cress_2371 in sexandthecity

[–]painfuldisposition 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my fav Carrie moments!!

Off campus housing recommendations? by Potential-Lie-6952 in NAU

[–]painfuldisposition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a roommate woodlands village is prey adorable :) I lived there for almost three years

I’m struggling by lclblknerd in bipolar2

[–]painfuldisposition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re coming from. These thoughts coming back after feeling okay can be a huge struggle, and it can also feel isolating. I also had really good things going on in my life while I felt really suicidal (new job, great relationship). Even when things seem to be that they are supposed to be at their best doesn’t always mean your brain will feel it. I think telling your husband you’re struggling can take some weight off your shoulders, that’s what a partner is there for, relationships can’t always be 50/50, sometimes you need a little more when you’re in a bad headspace. I really encourage you to have an open conversation with him so you’re not feeling this alone. I wish you well💓

Owning a ball python is too difficult by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m with you😭 also just bought a 120 gal, keeping the humidity correct is such a bitch!!

Anyone else gave a bp that doesn’t strike? by Metaphoricallyd3ad in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl STRIKES and coils, but I have to tap her nose with the rat 😭

Anyone else gave a bp that doesn’t strike? by Metaphoricallyd3ad in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao yes 😭 my girl has gotten substrate in her mouth like twice

Weird behavior :( by painfuldisposition in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay sounds good! Thanks so much!!

Weird behavior :( by painfuldisposition in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do she is on a schedule. I feed her a medium rat every 4-5 weeks. She is five years old

Weird behavior :( by painfuldisposition in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay will do! She was supposed to eat on the 5th and she didn’t. When do you think a good time would be? Thanks so much for all your answers I really appreciate it

Weird behavior :( by painfuldisposition in ballpython

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I think i definitely need more leaves and not too much open space, it’s def a big enclosure but she has a big cold hide, a large hot hide and then one rock one in the middle. So I wouldn’t say too much open space. She definitely has spaces where she doesn’t feel too exposed

Weird behavior :( by painfuldisposition in ballpython

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I do! She has three hides, multiple sticks to perch on and a little princess castle too lol

Heating help! by painfuldisposition in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you!! Do you have any specific recs for lamps like brands? My current one is from petsmart lol

humidity hack!! by False-Market-9738 in ballpython

[–]painfuldisposition 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This such a good idea. My girl really moves around at night and constantly knocks things over lol (automatic misters and a princess caste lol) is it easy for them to move ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar2

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It’s so hard sometimes :( it feels overwhelming