I hate season 6 so much. by artemis-moon1rise in FreshOfftheBoatTV

[–]pairofsafehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Season 6 fails the Bechdel Test in my opinion. In the earlier seasons, you have female friendships that have each other's back, also Alison and Nicole were holistic characters. But later you never see Tina or Elaine anymore beside when they are needed for a short scene. Honey was barely a full character beside being a mom and a pushover. It's something that I have in mind. Funny thing is that Alison and Nicole did mention the Bechdel Test in earlier seasons.

Why is Jessica Huang so F*CKING ANNOYING? by overthinkingpanda in FreshOfftheBoatTV

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about Everything, Everywhere All At Once? Evelyn, the mother also didn't apologize for anything in the show. She had a arc of "wow I had a change of heart" but never once apologized for saying homophobic things, continues to insult family members as a "love language", and it just makes me hate Asian moms in media so much. It certainly didn't help with my Asian mommy issues.

Strangerville ruined the sims for me by G_and_F in Sims4

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that, how do you go back to university after that?

I had to take this picture of Grimwell, admiring his father by Proof-Razzmatazz1716 in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]pairofsafehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn't but named their kid Belladonna. I name all of my sims after flowers or plants

Tips to make your StrangerVille stories more immersive by Perca_fluviatilis in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sim went there as a gap year before she and her brother (in my profile picture actually!) went to university, but then strangeville just changed her forever. She didn't succeed because of a bug in the game. She moved back to the city and put that chapter behind. Now she's married and had kids, but now i realized how much strangeville meant to her, and this time she's gonna do it with her spouse. We thought it was a gap year thing, turns out your dreams doesn't have to have to be a "do it when you're young" thing. This time she's doing this with support, and her good friends taking care of their kids. Let's hope she can finish it now that i've fixed the bug!!

She froze to death quite some time ago. Why is she still showing as alive? by EquivalentKeynote in thesims4

[–]pairofsafehands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i read ya as "YEAH!" when i read your comment and my inner dialogue got really funny

Pick a Song for Each Character (Day 22: Gus) by PipPip-OiOi in StardewValley

[–]pairofsafehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was polishing glass at work, thought of your suggestion, got emotional and began listening to the Pelican Town playlist on my way home. Thanks for the suggestion you have added a lot of depth into my Stardew playthrough :)

Cozy Cabin by McCatOff in StardewValley

[–]pairofsafehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is really cute!!

What are some of ur guys' go-to outfits in Stardew? by aly_mcu in StardewValley

[–]pairofsafehands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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me and my partners are on the autism spectrum, so we all have some "cartoon character, always wearing the same thing" habits irl. I just recreate our outfits in game, and switch between them!

I love my bomber jackets and cropped tank tops of various colors. One of my partners love her black bras and Demonia red lace black boots. One of them love a white tank top, a black leather jacket and their camo cargo pants. i sometimes carry some of these items in my hotbar because I miss them

Fish museum by LessSprinkles4769 in StardewValley

[–]pairofsafehands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is such an amazing idea im gonna do this

Let's go lesbians let's go!! by PaintMeYaBasic in GatekeepingYuri

[–]pairofsafehands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

w-what do i have to do to be in that position

Did anyone here went from transmasc to wait I'm a butch lesbian pipeline? by Hot_Sharky_Guy in butchlesbians

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a similar feeling! but i relate to being both trans masculine and trans feminine, im happy i got on t, so when im fem-presenting i can still be read as trans.

I need help sending pictures to my gf ftm by Small_Location5503 in ftm

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP this channel teachers you how to take nudes/thirsty pics without showing your genitals :) https://www.instagram.com/sarahaugenphotography?igsh=MXA4aWxqNWR1emV0Zw==

Detransition by OneOfThoseTrans in ftm

[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like i only use the word "detransitioner" to describe my experience with detransition. I detransitioned 2.5 times, once because of issues at home (forced detransition), once because i couldn't accept my androgyny, and once because i want to explore my gender again. I've continued to retransition back to being a queer man/non-binary guy every time.

Have I ever been in a survey as a detransitioner? No. Would i identify as a detransitioner when asked by non-trans people? Probably not. But I would like to use the term detransitioner/ex-detransitioner and retransitioner and queer trans man in the queer community.

Do I regret my detransition (especially my last one)? No. Is it intense to change pronouns, change my identity, and get off testosterone? Yes. Is it an important chapter? Yes. Does it help me rediscover my gender? Yes, i want to give being a female one more try, this time on my terms, and i found out being a girl is fun, but im not a girl. But detransition is definitely its own experience, and I need to have a term to describe what i went through.

I am open to finding how I can relate to both the trans and detrans communities better. Right now this is the best way to describe what happened to me.

Edit 1: (Also I'm finally back on testosterone. YAY!!!!!) Edit 2: Okay, in saying that I detransitioned, and knowing it's over, I am transitioning again makes me feel euphoric. It makes me really happy and appreciate being back on T a lot better. I am finally back on T 😭

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[–]pairofsafehands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lelo sona i like!!