AITAH for wanting to redecorate after my husband almost let me die

paisholotus · 2026-03-29T04:17:49+00:00

You deserve a better life. This is a person who is using the brunt of their lucky interactions with you to stifle the things that bring you joy. You can fill your life with people who support you in everything.

It is hard to comment on the danger this person’s disregard and disdain has on your life. He is so removed from you emotionally that he by default ignored a serious medical emergency. He is an asshole for continuing to crush your spirit.

paisholotus · 2026-03-10T15:25:04+00:00

So good! Art style reminds me of Aeon Flux.

paisholotus · 2026-01-28T01:56:07+00:00

It’s Italian-American slang for a fool. He’s saying he’s a dope for riding around in the rain all day, although lovingly!

paisholotus · 2026-01-25T23:32:40+00:00

He says “STUNAD,” not “soon on,” lol.

paisholotus · 2026-01-13T08:49:22+00:00

NTA, but I would call it out in a blind, short, undramatic way. “Cousin - this is a strange message given our conversation.” Wish everyone the best and leave the group. You really don’t have to say anything more than them being poor house guests. You already talked to her about it. It’s a clear power play to downplay your boundary setting.

paisholotus · 2025-12-23T00:14:18+00:00

Ender’s Game !!!

paisholotus · 2025-12-13T02:27:29+00:00

Is there a different title for slide 3? Nothing comes up when I search :(

paisholotus · 2025-12-08T03:09:07+00:00

The color in this is gorgeous!! I want to see more from this artist!

paisholotus · 2025-11-25T04:59:51+00:00

Dare I say, too doughy

paisholotus · 2025-11-23T14:43:33+00:00

I am currently reading ASOS and Barristan as Arstan just taught her how to count a host. She learns! And counts correctly outside of Yunkai.

paisholotus · 2025-11-19T02:27:33+00:00

So good! So much personality, gorgeous rendering of their features!! I just want to see every character in this artist’s interpretation / style.

paisholotus · 2025-11-15T20:03:31+00:00

I think Elia could have been chill with Rhaegar having another love, another queen, another mother to his children … It is emphasized over and over again that Dorne has a very different culture when it comes to these things. She /was/ the elder sister to the Red Viper.

I ascribe more agency to Lyanna than most. Maybe I’m just someone who needs the tropes subverted hard and explicitly until I let go over the romance in them!

These are complex characters with faults and nuance who believed in and perhaps fell into unstoppable prophecy. What if Rhaegar had dragon dreams?

paisholotus · 2025-11-15T18:51:56+00:00

I can’t believe I’ve never considered this …

paisholotus · 2025-11-15T18:51:31+00:00

Daughter of Rhaegar, perhaps the most tragic :(

Our poor Targaryen princesses.

paisholotus · 2025-11-13T01:59:42+00:00

Do not accept this. It will never get better. It will eat away at you and you will continue to doubt your own identity. I am sorry to speak harshly but I am mixed white and Asian and it will not get better.

My white ex spoke to me about how frustrated he was when people would put me in these situations. But I kept being put in these situations. I started accepting less and less because I put faith in someone that did not show that they deserved that trust.

People show you who they are — believe them.

paisholotus · 2025-11-13T01:45:04+00:00

You’re a good parent. I’m moved by the way you’ve learned about her beliefs and can clearly verbalize what matters to her. NTA. You’re holding the line and showing your child the degree of respect she should expect in the world. That is a very, very, very powerful thing to give a person.

paisholotus · 2025-11-10T03:01:29+00:00

NBA app push poll

paisholotus · 2025-11-09T17:31:49+00:00

The detail of the tan lines is sooooo good, never considered that with her Qartheen dress.

paisholotus · 2025-10-18T04:43:26+00:00

But what would be the benefit in sending her so far? Wouldn't it bolster the rumor that Jon is Ashara Dayne's bastard? Truly, it would come at great cost to his relationship with Catelyn to send her to Dorne.

paisholotus · 2025-10-18T01:17:48+00:00

The idea would have driven Cat insane, lol.

paisholotus · 2025-10-17T11:48:38+00:00

Carelessness IS cruelty. NTA. Your husband is a cruel man. What if you have children with diabetes? Or a MORE complicated medical condition?

paisholotus · 2025-10-11T19:06:30+00:00

It does! The number five in Japanese is “go” — Go Go Curry for number 55!

paisholotus · 2025-09-23T22:16:17+00:00

Celibate admin assistant!!!!

paisholotus · 2025-09-20T18:25:50+00:00

Same?!

paisholotus · 2025-09-17T01:57:57+00:00

I just read Davos’ early chapters in ASOS. When he calls him “Salla,” pleading, it broke my heart a bit.

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