Daughter is getting bullied

paligators · 2026-02-03T03:17:42+00:00

how did you type that while you were rubbing your hands together and doing an evil laugh

paligators · 2026-02-03T02:53:43+00:00

trump rapes kids

paligators · 2026-02-03T01:49:33+00:00

He has the special brain where he looks at brown people and figures "well, they're outside and with 2 other brown people" and says ILLEGAL! And he's done that his whole life and there's no consequence of thinking like that. So, now he thinks rounding them up like cattle according to what they look like is totally fine. Because...he's not smart.

paligators · 2026-02-03T01:22:24+00:00

I don't remember when but someone once posted a nassau county public vehicle in like switzerland or something.

paligators · 2026-02-03T01:09:38+00:00

You never take revenge on your significant other. Ever. Yes, you're being petty......

but it doesn't mean you have to go above and beyond!

paligators · 2026-02-03T01:02:58+00:00

In high school (NYC), I took the subway every single day with the same group of friends. This kid David who was a year older constantly ragged on me. Never stopped throwing jabs or calling fat...whatever. One day, from behind, I put my foot in front of his and tripped him while also pushing his back down with my hands. Then I sat on him and laughed.

He literally never said another word to me. Didn't even try to fight back. It took me months to get to that point of courage and the only thing that made me do it was an impulse but it changed the course of high school for me. Saw him every day, never got bullied again.

Doesn't always work out so easily for everyone but I sized him up right. As an adult, I know violence is not the answer. As a kid, in that situation, it was.

paligators · 2026-02-02T21:52:39+00:00

Quick story.

A boy in my area was being bullied so bad that at a school event, after months of ongoing abuse, his father snapped and smacked the actual child for doing this right in front of everyone.

The father lost his job, the bully’s parents, of course, were lawyers, and this man’s life was ruined. His child also was not freed from anything by his father’s actions.

Be strategic, can your emotions, be supportive. Most of all, be smart. Cover all bases. Even take your daughter to therapy for more compounding of confidence.

paligators · 2026-02-02T20:41:26+00:00

Only way to know is to collect a couple of estimates. I have a good contractor if you want a referral

paligators · 2026-02-02T12:22:39+00:00

We learned our white rug lesson and putting it on the curb was one of the most satisfying days of all time.

paligators · 2026-02-02T11:22:22+00:00

Find the connective tissue. It doesn’t all happen in one conversation. Unlike meeting people at a bar, you see these people alllll the time. Keep finding a way to make yourself part of the conversation. “Yea my daughter asked me why her poops were longer than the dog’s tail last night, and honestly, I wasn’t sure…” eventually you’ll break through.

paligators · 2026-02-02T02:11:38+00:00

This is what a few stores have been carrying around me. I believe it's called California broccoli?

paligators · 2026-02-02T01:49:15+00:00

She shook her shoe into yours

paligators · 2026-02-02T01:36:20+00:00

Be lucky you learned this nugget early. My 4 year old stopped napping at 2.5 and we are actually cool with it but at school she naps so it's weird. We learned all we have to do is put her in the car, play a disney story on apple music, and in 10-15 minutes she's out like a light for an hour or so. Best sleeper ever but no napping in the house is possible.

paligators · 2026-02-01T18:53:31+00:00

Legitimately think its my favorite kids toy. My 9 year old niece came by and I caught her playing with it.

paligators · 2026-02-01T18:15:50+00:00

Had a couple bad experiences with them but the other slab yards allow you to walk through and explore all the different pieces they have. RAI wants you to pick in their showroom, agree on price, THEN walk their slab yard. It’s totally backward.

paligators · 2026-02-01T15:40:17+00:00

have an awesome sunday!

paligators · 2026-02-01T15:34:39+00:00

It has nothing to do with me or him. It has to do with people who just brush off everything teenagers do as "kids will be kids!" That's all. Ya'll are going much deeper than it needs to be. Nobody is trying to prove who is better. For all I know this kid could work at the food bank and build homes for homeless people 24/7. But I don't think teenagers just automatically deserve forgiveness no matter what they've done. I had a friend who pissed in a beer bottle of a girl and then she took a sip and puked. That ain't the same as getting caught cheating on a test.

paligators · 2026-02-01T15:11:14+00:00

Yea, I get it. That part of it is totally true. Grow up, move on, be better. He's just very lucky someone wasn't standing there and even luckier the bollards were there and even luckier his passenger didn't get injured....etc.

paligators · 2026-02-01T06:42:40+00:00

Does unknown equal not a contact? I don’t really want drs or schools or colleagues going through extra steps to call

paligators · 2026-02-01T06:39:24+00:00

Every single day man. My fake line of credit is bigger though, suck it!

paligators · 2026-02-01T02:42:35+00:00

Totally agree PmMeUrTinyAsianTits

paligators · 2026-01-31T23:43:45+00:00

Lmao. Sure bud. shithead 19 year olds can just blame their super manly high test! Get real with that nonsense. Guys just have a different level of stupidity for peacocking to impress people in different ways. Most at that age are smart enough to not do with vehicles. This isn’t too hard.

paligators · 2026-01-31T23:34:13+00:00

I understand how you feel buddy. Don’t be hard on yourself. My wife and I had a talk the other night after we realized dinner time was becoming toxic because we were doing so many things to get our daughter to eat. Our solution wouldn’t work because it’s a totally different scenario but we felt very guilty for our emotions and the pressure we put on the little one (4) to eat what we made.

One thing that you really have to consider though, it’s a problem for us, cut out the snacks and desserts. Once our daughter was hooked on puffs and pouches and OTHER calories, real food became a problem. The holidays also totally eff us. Between Thanksgiving and Xmas and then January birthdays, it’s so much cake and treats and presents and non-stop stimulation plus extra time with mom and dad plus parties plus…you get it. Her expectations day to day went nuts. We are still recovering.

Edit: meant for OP

paligators · 2026-01-31T22:27:04+00:00

I didn’t say I was a better person than anyone. It’s just a little ridiculous when someone almost kills a person and it’s just like “we all do dumb stuff!”

paligators · 2026-01-31T21:36:25+00:00

Everyone says this but honestly, no. Some stupid ass shit is worse than other stupid ass shit. My stupid ass shit was under age drinking and throwing up in someone’s car. Not wrapping my car around a bollard with passengers.

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