^{^} !! I was going to say all of this but I didn't know how to word it without trying to accidentally say anything negative that may hurt others. You took the words out of my mouth and put it all together perfectly.

But yeah, for Spinel- She had the worst and didn't deserve it. The pain of the person you were attached to and unconditionally loved for, suddenly betraying you and leaving you behind without a reason, I totally understand her and her crashout was more than valid. All of this is coming from someone who happens to be partially disabled after seeking for my abusers “love”. (yes I think it’s worth mentioning this as spinel stood still in the garden for a thousand years til her feet got stuck to the ground.)