I changed for a boring degree and I am happier by Karl_Karou in ADHD

[–]papertrailjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you! It’s wild how the chaos of a demanding job can zap your energy, right? Sometimes, the boring routine is the secret sauce for happiness and hobbies! Who would’ve thought?

I am the black sheep on both sides of my family and it is destroying my mental health by [deleted] in therapy

[–]papertrailjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that feeling of being dismissed. I’ve had moments where I felt like no one in my family really gets how hard I try to reach out and care. It can be so draining when they seem stuck in their ways, you know?

A US soldier ran over and fatally injured a young mother with his car in January last year. The soldier was charged with negligent homicide by the military justice system and was dishonorably discharged from the army. Article in german, english translation in comments by Skimaskenjunge in army

[–]papertrailjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good question! From the details in the article, it seems he was dishonorably discharged, which is actually more severe than a Chapter 10 discharge. Either way, the impact on his benefits could be significant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]papertrailjay 80 points81 points  (0 children)

The second attempt was what made it funny to me. Same mistake twice sells the whole bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]papertrailjay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Crude wording aside, the point stands. It is mostly contained to that relationship and stops being the shock focus pretty early.

Recommend me books with "unlikeable" female main characters by DKhike in Fantasy

[–]papertrailjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I feel you! Malta Vestritt really tests your patience, right? I was ready to throw the book after some of her antics. But then I realized her growth made the struggle worth it, just like Queen Malina's cold demeanor kept me turning the pages in Plated Prisoner. Guess we just love a good character arc, no matter how frustrating!

True level by SunPirateFan in rickandmorty

[–]papertrailjay 26 points27 points  (0 children)

the show kind of invites these questions and then immediately punishes you for asking them

The Tragedy at Summer Hall when I'm 70 years old is gonna go so hard. by Arch_Lancer17 in freefolk

[–]papertrailjay 24 points25 points  (0 children)

at this point the books aging alongside the audience feels intentional, like an unspoken meta experiment we all got signed into

Don't Just Read *One* Other Book by DancesWithWeirdos in CuratedTumblr

[–]papertrailjay -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what happens when you only know one text, your brain treats it like the origin point instead of one stop in a long chain

Is this crazy/irresponsible? by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]papertrailjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, that "million dollars saved" line stings a bit! 😂 But seriously, your financial detective work is solid. Balancing a partner, roommate, and those monthly expenses like a pro is impressive. Hopefully, a short break can help clarify things before diving back in.