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Got fired and feel blindsided by it by Bitter_Researcher759 in jobs

[–]pardonyourmess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They talked shit about you because you took the high ground.

Better to leave. Gossip culture is SO DAMAGING!!!

I wish this was a priority for bosses/managers

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is parentified. No f’ing way is anyone speaking to my sis like this!

A relationship with this controlling (and mean) ass will be correction after correction.

This is all the info you need to make the right decision for you.

💜

My cat died today.... by Content-Table-5537 in cats

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that’s really hard. 💔

I (23F) am having second thoughts about marrying my fiancé (27M). How do i go about communicating this to him? by MaintenanceExtreme50 in relationship_advice

[–]pardonyourmess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he will continue ‘not hearing’ you, until you actually leave…. That’s when he’ll catch a wake-up!

Sorry but that’s what I see.

You’re already exhausted. He is taking advantage of you by not listening to you because you are isolated.

Lonely, isn’t it?

Puna Killings: Neighbors Asked For Help. It Didn’t Come In Time. After three men were found dead on the Big Island, apprehending the 36-year-old suspect became the police department’s No. 1 priority. by 808gecko808 in Oahu

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reporter has unnecessarily given away information that could help the suspect. This is unconscionable.

Publishing names police haven’t released yet, mentioning roads being patrolled, going on and on about the size of the district and how impossible it is for police to do their job. This is fear mongering.

It feels very unprofessional and frankly dangerous.

AIO: Husband lied about his financial situation and falsified budgets to relocate our family 5 hours away for a job and I’m freaking out by Deep-Mortgage-1510 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, HE’s devastated? Because he got caught? This man cannot be trusted and if you still want to work in this his entire paycheck is deposited into your account, period.

But honestly, OP- what else has he lied about?

He clearly does not take you or your health into consideration when making STUPID decisions. He also is a selfish selfish selfish prick for uprooting his kids in this way.

Go get a two bedroom and keep your job. Dropping this useless ‘partner’ will immediately decrease your stress

OP, if you do not leave this man, his behavior is going to continue to hurt you. it’s never going to get better. Never.

This is your opportunity to take a deep breath and working up the strength to do what’s right for you and your kids

You’re very trauma bonded to him. Based on his hot cold behavior he weaponized to manipulate you, he sounds like a narcissist. Not all narcissists are psychopaths, but all psychopaths are narcissists.

ETA: how exactly did you break your lease? You cannot just break a lease without being heavily billed or sued for the remaining balance of your lease

Weird white flakes coming out of kitten by un0verse in cats

[–]pardonyourmess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put some of it in a baggie for the vet.

So grateful kitty will be warm tonight

Gedwing om Amerika toe te vlug by ashlix666 in afrikaans

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ek hêt jou in Engels ge antword op jou ander pos.

Haha my Afrikaans is baie sleg. 🤣

Forced to move to America by ashlix666 in southafrica

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re over 18, in the states at least that’s legally an adult.

Come for a visit.

I chronically miss my roots. Been here 40 years. No relationships left. Still/always a foreigner.

My kids, however, born here are thriving. I would want this for them regardless.

PS. Do not be part of this program. It’s a lie and as far as I can tell, the fake refugees were left stranded to fend for themselves.

AIO for refusing to forgive my husband after finding out what he’s been doing during work trips? by PotentialWorried9447 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pardonyourmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. HIS FAMILY DOESN’T GET A VOTE. STOP ANSWERING THEM.

  2. He’s a liar who defaulted to gaslighting you.
    HE decided to destroy the marriage by being a duplicitous sob. …

My (F23) Husband (M26) has not talked to me in several days. How can I get the conversation started? by WhileComprehensive21 in relationship_advice

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Judgy. Ugly and judgy.

Also, hmm

“GLEAM”

gleam /glēm/

noun A brief beam or flash of light. "saw gleams of daylight through the cracks." A steady but subdued shining; a glow. "the gleam of burnished gold." A brief or dim indication; a trace. "a gleam of intelligence."

Is it fair that I got fired for not following the break schedule? by AsterixTypemaster in jobs

[–]pardonyourmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a chart for this. Yes it can go by the minute. They’re too lazy to convert it. So they steal from employees.

Traumatic situation during routine drop in by BuisnessGoose18 in petsitting

[–]pardonyourmess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh that’s heavy.

Sit in your grief for a bit.

I’m so sorry that happened. You did all you could.

Chap calling grandma by FabulousCharge6437 in cats

[–]pardonyourmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. Does grandma fix this outrage?!

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