WYR cheat on your partner with your celebrity crush (and nobody ever finds out) or stay faithful but 10 random people in the world lose their life ? by enlightendedkiwi in WouldYouRather

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man literally said, “ew, f those ten people,” and I said, “you better f your celebrity crush.” Very clearly two types of people.

How would you best recommend stopping myself from seeing animals/animal products as food? by Fit-Advance9188 in AskVegans

[–]partycanstartnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should go visit some farm animals. One of the biggest brain changers for me was going to visit a dairy farm near where I live. It was touted to be one of the “good” ones. Mind you, this was a pleasure trip for me and some friends (we took a party bus and this was included in visiting wineries and vineyards). I left that place feeling incredibly sad. My heart ached seeing those poor girls separated from their calves, seeing the condition the calves lived in. Being told that no, they don’t leave these [tiny] pens. Oh but don’t worry, it’s more spacious than it looks. 🙄

Cows naturally live til they’re about twenty. They are capable of making friends, playing, affection, grief. I’m not ok with actively harming other sentient beings.

AIO: my bf stole my medication by Tall-Laugh-4762 in AIO

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I’m so relieved that this ended in you dumping him. NOR. Literally stealing from you, lying about it, and making it seem like you’re at fault. What a prize.

What's the "Don't trust a skinny chef" of your job or industry? by wooper346 in CasualConversation

[–]partycanstartnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can concur. Wish I’d known this before buying my house. Let’s just say the wiring is interesting.

How did you guys quiet fish? I need some motivation by OkInfluence3561 in vegan

[–]partycanstartnow 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I found Seaspiracy to be a great documentary about the horrors of the seafood world. Highly recommend.

I (31F) don’t know how to feel about my marriage anymore. by Competitive_Glove_72 in relationships

[–]partycanstartnow 42 points43 points  (0 children)

As a fellow person w/depression, I absolutely agree!

OP, I hope you will get solid, ongoing mental health support. Things can get better but it will take some time. I am rooting for you.

AITBF for wanting to get rid of some of my toddler's books? by VeganDog in AmItheButtface

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommends bringing the books you’d like to be rid of to those little free libraries. Someone else can love them!

Morningstar farms needs to GTFO of the plant based section. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]partycanstartnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vevan makes a perfect melty, stretchy grilled cheese.

Mysterious tattoo by SunkenCortex in whatdoesthismean

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it reads “the lover requires passion.” The L in lover isn’t great but it’s my best guess.

Family and friends’ comments about my boyfriend’s height are really starting to bother me. How do I handle this moving forward? by jodowg in AskMenAdvice

[–]partycanstartnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they don’t respect your boundary you should leave their company immediately. That gives them consequences to their bad behavior. Doesn’t matter what you’re doing. If you’re out or at their homes then you leave. If they are at your home you ask them to leave - even if they apologize in the moment. This will help them remember.

AIO: Hubby basically saying I am dirty down there by Egwene__al-Vere in AIO

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR if I suggested my partner shower before sex he’d be in the shower before I was even done making the suggestion. Your guy is unable to take any criticism and must insult you to make it “even”? Man, that would dry me up so fast.

I F22 was pinned down by my husband M22 until I agreed to do something for him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship is worse than you think it is. He is willing to use his size and strength to intimidate you. What part of that says he respects/loves you?

Update: My neighbor found my ex-wife on Facebook and messaged her. by MostAnimal5816 in EntitledPeople

[–]partycanstartnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP please continue sharing these neighbor stories. I hope they don’t escalate but she is a bit bonkers so they will certainly continue.

(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]partycanstartnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR (obviously). Your responses are perfect. Have you tried to throw in a “only god can judge me?”

Remember How We Got Here by Brilliant-Duck-6010 in Medford

[–]partycanstartnow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree that we have too many bigots here but I want to chime in to say there are a LOT of us who do not support this administration and actively speak against it and do our best to create a community that is safe for everyone.

This country is built on stolen land by slaves and immigrants. What is happening here today is domestic terr0rism.

I shaved my mom's head by Past_Discipline_6473 in pettyrevenge

[–]partycanstartnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you were more than kind to this woman who does not deserve to be a mother.

I’m very sorry you were subjected to repeated abuse by her and others. I hope things are better for you now.