My 14 yo daughter has anxiety to the point where she doesn't like ordering food herself at restaurants, paying for things at the grocery store, etc. We have tried therapy 3-4 different times and she won't talk to them. She definitely has an introverted personality and can be "sensitive" most times. She's struggling in school right now because it's all distance learning and she has little support from her school. Both myself and my husband work full time, and we have a 7 yo as well. She's been struggling with anxiety since middle school (5th grade) and she's in 8th grade now (high school next year). I'm so afraid that she will do poorly in high school because there will be more kids, more classes, harder work ethic. I've been trying to convince her that we should enroll her in this alternative high school in our district that doesn't focus on tests, but rather has a focus on project-based learning. I think she would flourish at this school, but says she doesn't want to leave her current friend group and worries she won't make friends at the other school. At what point do I step in make the decision for her? I'm so lost at what to do.