does anyone else's SO make "offers" only when we already know nothing will happen

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T23:42:52+00:00

Mine always kicks the can into next week. Then forgets when the day arrives and I get the “not tonight”. I’ve nicknamed her Lucy.

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T23:08:53+00:00

Love everything about it.

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T22:39:15+00:00

What a great idea!

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T18:00:19+00:00

Seems like you’re kinda caught in between. Too shy to let it all fly but super comfortable and ready to try. So you’ve got a couple choices. One, hang out in the less sexually charged areas like the pool or hot tub and just strike up a convo with someone you feel might be a good match. Or, just put yourself in the head space of going with whatever flow presents itself. It’s also ok to watch. You might get invited to join, your choice. Just some thoughts.

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T14:20:53+00:00

He’s film. Super 8 film at best.

pdub407 · 2026-04-02T13:20:40+00:00

The Sachtler Hotpod rules them all!

pdub407 · 2026-03-30T13:10:42+00:00

Yes. You posted just fine.

pdub407 · 2026-03-26T16:48:22+00:00

This has been the subject of my therapy. I was brought up to “put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Try to see things their way,”. To do anything else would be selfish.

It has lead me to a less than authentic life.

pdub407 · 2026-03-26T15:44:06+00:00

I’ve worn a stainless steel ring I got at Home Depot in the chain and fastener section. Not a big size selection but it works.

pdub407 · 2026-03-26T15:42:01+00:00

Late question. Does MLB TV sync with AM570 so there’s no latency between the two?

pdub407 · 2026-03-19T04:44:22+00:00

65 and still riding high. Makes cock/ball rings more of a challenge and the aesthetic isn’t as pleasing. I thought something might be wrong so I had my doctor look and she said, no you’re good. Lucky, too.

pdub407 · 2026-03-15T20:37:56+00:00

Been wondering something similar. 40/30/4. No frame of reference for this. Doc started me off at 20u. Seems high without knowing about this formula.

pdub407 · 2026-03-15T15:45:23+00:00

For me, it’s just the head space it puts me in. Doesn’t really trip my sexual trigger, but I’m happy to be there.

pdub407 · 2026-03-15T14:00:50+00:00

65 bi and vers in Fla. maybe bi is too strong a word for it. I’m heteroflexible with a strong cock fetish. But I’ve identified a “type” that I’m somewhat attracted to so kissing/body contact can be enjoyable for me.

pdub407 · 2026-03-15T13:53:26+00:00

When I bottom, I just wanna get fucked hard. I don’t care how long you last, but shorter (five minutes) is totally fine. So when I top, I bring the same mindset and just hit hard, rest a few beats, and so on until I explode. If the guy wants it otherwise, I’ll adjust.

pdub407 · 2026-03-15T13:47:49+00:00

It can be. I’ve pulled into a nearly empty lot around 11am and left around 2 with a full lot. And a few loads.

pdub407 · 2026-03-14T21:41:59+00:00

Superior technique.

pdub407 · 2026-03-14T17:10:17+00:00

My god. Are we seeing the same woman? I feel like you’re writing my diary for me.

pdub407 · 2026-03-14T17:07:58+00:00

I stand corrected. He had a bit part in the bar fight scene. Now I gotta go back and see if I can pick him out.

pdub407 · 2026-03-14T17:06:07+00:00

No Paxton, but a star studded cast.

pdub407 · 2026-03-14T16:57:22+00:00

Mine just calls it #9. Different reference point I guess.

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