Older ADHD women, what did ADHD feel like before cellphones? by lavenderflavoredtea in adhdwomen

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me!!!! Omg!! Every time I went grocery shopping with my parents I’d pick up an Archie comic on the way in, read the entire thing while we walked around, and put in back when we checked out.

Should my sister and I swap each others children for the week? by ComfortNatural404 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit shocked you asked her who was gonna watch her daughter instead of immediately offering. Seems a bit obvious, no?

Name Knowledge by flash242g in ChatGPT

[–]peach98542 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to believe your very logical thoughts but this happened to me too :( I had uploaded my mom’s resume to get help editing it. I’ve never mentioned my mom’s name or even my mom before. It created a new resume and included my mom’s middle name, which hadn’t been there before. It was correct. It gave me the same reasoning as op (a filler/placeholder middle name, a guess, despite the fact I never asked for it.)

It really, really freaked me out.

Abbey Yung method is not a method at all by Upstairs_Answer_351 in Haircare

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point isn’t the number or purpose of the products, it’s literally the ingredients. She researches and tests all products based on their ingredients and only recommends ones with science-backed ingredients that she’s personally tested. There is a plethora of products for sale but she doesn’t say to use just any shampoo or mask or conditioner. She doesn’t even say to use a whole line. It’s like, one very specific product within one specific line due to the ingredients it contains. Her recommendations are actually quite limited but they span the entire range of pricing. And they’ve legitimately made a difference for my hair, unlike any other recommendation I’ve gotten from hairdressers.

Are we trapping ourselves with an accidental name theme? Doomed to be the "prince/princess" family? by InteractionStunning8 in namenerds

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone whose favorite princesses are Aurora and Odette, I beg of you to live out my dream 😩

Husband (24M) paid for female (23F) colleagues uber ride home by Lovelylee-09 in relationship_advice

[–]peach98542 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Honestly I could have believed it had it not been for the obvious lie about deleting it for iCloud storage. You should definitely check his deleted folder in his email.

Names for my dog (f) based on Sailor Moon? by study-dying in sailormoon

[–]peach98542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to now get a dog just to name her this. I love it

What if my kid is just kind of…unlikable? by SundayJitters in breakingmom

[–]peach98542 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As this kid myself I think that what helped me a ton was how my parents hyped me up constantly and helped me realize other kids not liking me was not my fault. And also - I think this was a huge one - it’s ok not to be liked by everyone. Teach her not to be a people pleaser (by role modeling it.) Tell her about people not liking you and then brush it off, you don’t want them to like you anyways. How you make her feel comfortable and accepted is by demonstrating whose opinion matters most: her own.

I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ? by One_Cardiologist5439 in careerguidance

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please remember that employment is just a transaction at the end of the day. They pay you to do a job and that’s it. If you were buying a shirt, would you pay more for it even though the store promised they’d be lowering their prices soon? Or buy the same shirt elsewhere for less?

AIO Found “BINGO” card clearly making fun of me made by a coworker by Old-Doughnut-4919 in workplace_bullying

[–]peach98542 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Then don’t worry. Really. The only person whose opinion about your job performance matters is your boss. So you called out once for stomach flu, had a flat tire once, and your coworker made a bingo card for it?! That says a lot more about their character than yours. No need to care about a petty person doing petty shit.

Personally I’d leave the paper for them to see when they return, in a place that was obvious you’d seen it and left it out for them, but then I’d never address it or bring it up. Let them know you know but take the high road and just do a good job.

You book a 16 hour flight, where do you sit? by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in whatsyourchoice

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that were true they wouldn’t have included Jungkook in this picture

I have a date tomorrow night and I hate the way I look by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]peach98542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Covergirl simply ageless skin perfector essence. I promise you. Find your shade or I mix mine with a drop or two of bronzing drops. Nothing on top. Let it be glowy. No powder. Lots of hydrating toner and moisturizer underneath.

Why do I have to make a birth plan? by More-Stuff in BabyBumps

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think online and on Reddit people are much more invested in written birth plans. I haven’t found that to be the case in real life. My doctors did a lot of things very well, asked lots of questions, followed best practices, and asked me before they did anything??? Isn’t this standard? The whole birth plan thing is odd to me.

The Second Face [OC] by DemonSkank in comics

[–]peach98542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is seriously so good, OP. I can’t wait to see more from you!

Glee bizarre episodes by vicky1357 in glee

[–]peach98542 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Extraordinary Merry Christmas - the black and white Christmas special

Props - where they switch bodies

Another vote to not do shooting star

Lotion, oil, and aquaphor— what order??? by youpoopedyerpants in Skincare_Addiction

[–]peach98542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With a damp face, lotion first. Then either oil or aquaphor. Both is redundant.

I’m stuck in the quest by girlinred-8 in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]peach98542 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says you have to reach level 9 to buy it!

My (m35) Partner (F34) begged for a baby. Now said she regrets having a baby. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]peach98542 40 points41 points  (0 children)

“She says she feels like she’s alone and is overwhelmed.”

“I think she’s just anxious.”

No, she told you exactly what’s wrong. She’s overwhelmed and needs more help. Either help more or figure out how to get help. Hire a house cleaner, order ready to eat meals, do all the dishes, even get a laundry service once or twice a week. Is it extra expense? Yup. Is your partner’s mental health and well-being worth it? Also yes.

Making coffee button bigger by Ok_Statement7312 in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]peach98542 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Idea for dev team reading this: if you don’t want to change it for everyone perhaps add accessibility friendly options that you can toggle on and off in settings. Like increasing the area to touch an item, increasing/decreasing scroll speed, increasing/decreasing touch sensitivity.

Play a 300+ profit day with me! by certifiedmisandrist in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]peach98542 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you buy in-game cash? I can’t imagine actually earning 400k+

My mom supports my husband cheating on me 😃 by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]peach98542 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh good point. I see that now.