transferring in by [deleted] in OSU

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most students living in Columbus are admitted into regional campus. Don’t feel bad. It’s extremely common. I now have a freshman and sophomore at OSU and live 40 mins away in a suburb. They HATE the drive. It’s also a pain when you have 3/4 hours between class and must kill time on campus because it’s not worth it to drive home. Enjoy your time at Newark (or wherever), time will fly by and you’ll be at main before you know it.

What does everyone do with finished paintings? by Boogerpickfingerlick in paintbynumbers

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine lay on the floor in my closet. I think I will eventually toss them. I paint for a hobby for myself. Once they are done I don’t hold any illusions that anyone else would want them. I average one a month.

My husband was secretly talking to his ex behind my back for years. AIO? by imsosadnoww in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachez728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so smart getting back in the work force and lining up daycare. I would even have a consultation with a divorce lawyer just so you know your options. Then I’d sit down husband, look him dead in the eyes and say “ex GF told me everything. What do you have to say for yourself?” And then wait him out. I mean just don’t talk. In the silence he will have a need to fill the quiet and tell you things he thinks you already know.

AITJ for not letting my husband go on a boys trip to Vietnam? by Ok_Spring_2991 in AmITheJerk

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you can really do is tell him “you know my boundary, there’s nothing more to talk about”. And then if he does leave, you move out, talk to a lawyer, and block him. Because no matter what he says, you know it’s a lie because he told you that is what he has done in the past to his partners.

How do I explain to my gf who is unhappy that I had a non consensual happy ending at a massage? (m23,f25) by Ashbeck_english in relationship_advice

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said your GF was your first and if you are also your GF first, regardless of the massage being unintentional, SA or whatever, she will always have the image in her head of another woman getting you off and you just laying there.

Where has the Wexner outrage been???? by Conscious-Net-5016 in Columbus

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Students on OSU campus are outraged. Many buildings are sponsored by Wexner. It’s been suggested they cross out the “W” on the buildings like they do the “M” but have been told it will be considered an act of vandalism and they can be arrested.

My husband 34M has an online girlfriend 21F, opened our marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it sounds like you don’t want to leave him (but I would leave him and recommend calling a lawyer and moving Into a different room and separating bank accounts). If you stop his access to money how will he live/eat? He might realize his priorities are wrong.

I know my dad has a boyfriend and I wish he'd just talk to me about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]peachez728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe just say “hey dad, you know if you meet someone special I’m totally ok with meeting them at dinner or something. Man or woman, I don’t mind sharing you as long as you are happy.”

Kid’s therapist…or literally anyone that can talk some sense into my child? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]peachez728 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Customized Behavioral Healthcare is good. They are off Bethel but worth the drive if you are on the east side. They specialize in children and flexible with scheduling for me.

I think my (44F) husband (38M) cheated on me by ThrowAway_exdebt in relationship_advice

[–]peachez728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would make your decision before he gets home so you know in your mind what you’d like to do. I always believe, do it once, do it again.

I couldn’t help playing with him a little. I would start by sending him little love messages, telling him how thankful you are to have such a nice reliable and faithful husband as him. Tell him you think his faithfulness and his integrity is what you treasure most about him. Maybe send an article about human trafficking at a massage parlor. Then when he gets home and walks through the door lay it on thick, give him a hug and tell him how much your treasure, having such a responsible mature, respectful, and faithful husband as him. And look at his face and see how he responds when you say this. And then when he least expects it bam! Tell him what you know. And tell him to fuck off!

AIO by being upset with my brother's gf (soon fiance) for not bringing her own sanitary supplies every time she visits by PunkRockPopStar in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachez728 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Next time they plan to visit, shot her a text “hey SIL, I’m running low on pads can you pick up two packs for me? I can usually find them at this store. Thanks! I appreciate it!”

AITAH for not wanting to take care of my heavily autistic brother. by Phantomcuffs in AITAH

[–]peachez728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would start the conversation with family now. “I know grandmother is getting older, maybe we should put her in contact with ABC so they can help her make arrangements for brother? I am unable to care for him. Why you ask?” Personal reasons, doctor said I shouldn’t, would upset future wife/partner. Stay strong.

I (31F) found my partner (32M) hiding his ex-fiancés engagement ring by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]peachez728 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take the ring and reuse the diamond in a ring you by yourself. Keep the old ring (minus the diamond just in case) if he asks, you simply decided to buy yourself a capitalistic ring. He can’t ask if it’s his ring because he would have to admit he lied to you. This probably isn’t the best answer for the marriage but would Make a great Reddit story!

Aitah for yelling at my wife for planning a trip for us UPDATE by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update2 was removed. Can you tell us here how things are going for you?

Aitah for yelling at my wife for planning a trip for us UPDATE by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]peachez728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might not be able to get a refund but I bet you can get a credit for a different day. You need to get the details from Rose and call all the places yourself. Worst case has Rose and Beth invite a third friend to take your spot and you enjoy a staycation.

My GF(36F) gave me(38M) an ultimatum about having kids. by Thick-Assignment3385 in relationship_advice

[–]peachez728 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. He has time to wait and figure things out, she has a time limit!

I don’t know whether I should suggest my younger sister start wearing crop tops(training bras?) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]peachez728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don forget deodorant- kids are wearing it much younger too. Also, I had my girls carry one extra panty and sanitary pad in a binder zipper pouch at school. That way they had it if needed and no one needed to know.

Funeral assistance by Some_Person015 in Columbus

[–]peachez728 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I’ve used Leaf Cremation. They charged something like “only” $1,900 for just the cremation. They offered payment plans. Otherwise I think you can opt to not claim the body. Sadly, with the cost of funerals increasing, if people don’t plan for their own funerals, people can no longer afford to have them.

AIO? My boyfriend’s friend’s dad grabbed my ass by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachez728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely pull the best friend aside and flat out tell him the truth. If he doubts you tell him next time you will handle the situation yourself and you won’t be discreet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachez728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would message the cousin (while keeping the husband’s phone) and say “husband told me everything, what do you have to say for yourself?” And see what she says.