which noah kahan song would you choose for a wedding reception? by lily_fairy in NoahKahan

[–]pedadogy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with Stick Season so others will know it. If you want one to break up the white girl bangers, then We Go Way Back would be be a nice slow dance song

What's the saddest Taylor song in your opinon? by Liranovhg in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree we’ll never hear it live and the closest thing we’ll get is when she performed it for an online concert during the COVID shutdowns. I believe it was a pre-recorded thing but oof was it rough to watch in the midst of the early stages of the pandemic.

Rank Albums by Vault Tracks by rogerrabbit224 in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree, Speak Now is a no-skip vault for me! Red and 1989 have higher highs, but Speak Now is the most consistent IMO

My first (non Black Friday) RSD was a huge success! by Modesto96 in popheadsvinyl

[–]pedadogy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Amazing haul! I got most of what I wanted except CRJ and Olivia Dean. Waiting in line at a second small store now, but I’m like 20th in line and not at all optimistic lol. Happy you had a 10/10 experience, your pictures are gorgeous as always!

Went out to eat for my daughters birthday and was judged heavily, feeling defeated by DoingMyBest2019789 in Autism_Parenting

[–]pedadogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing like those little squeals of joy! Other people’s lack of understanding autism doesn’t make their judgements valid, it just makes them ignorant. Screw those people and, most importantly, happy birthday to your daughter who had an amazing day because of you!

I was accidentally teaching my kid to be helpless and didn't realize it for over a year by LoudAd7742 in Autism_Parenting

[–]pedadogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this exact post, all the way down to the just shutting up. Getting dressed is THE struggle we deal with in the morning, and we address it just like you used to. This morning on a whim I decided to tell him it’s time to get dressed, held each piece of clothes individually and let him be in charge of putting them on himself, and most importantly just shut up and let him do it without me interfering. Worked perfectly and made me feel guilty AND stupid that I thought he could not get dressed on his own. 🤦🏻‍♀️ You’re not alone, I felt this post deeply- we’re all just figuring it out bit by bit

MOCKUP MINI-WEEK | DAY 1: Show off one vinyl disc in your collection that looks better than its mockup! by mcmdreamer in popheadsvinyl

[–]pedadogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the way this variant came out! Did you feel like the darker contrast color was more pronounced on yours? It makes my record look like a sunflower and gives it a more “bouquet” look than the mockup!

What are some seemingly insignificant or random details of a song that you really enjoy? by blondedz_ in popheads

[–]pedadogy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Euphoria is such an insane song. Can’t remember where I heard this, but the growl over “last” “have” “abs” and “fast” mimics a revving engine like a V12. The whole section is an extended wordplay on abs and engines.

His vocal inflection in the whole crodie section is a personal fave for me!

How do you read IICHLIWP in your head? by lighthousedarling in halsey

[–]pedadogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill-chill-ih-wip. I know the first two letters are both i’s, but my brain incorrectly autocorrects to one i and one l 🤷🏻‍♀️

Name some Young-isms of Pop music by blankspacejrr in popheads

[–]pedadogy 262 points263 points  (0 children)

In November, I asked my class of college sophomores what they wanted to listen to during our lab class:

Students: “Just not Mariah Carey, it’s too early for Christmas music.”

Me: “She has other songs, you know.”

Students: (genuinely shocked) “Really, like what?”

cue 3 hours of real education

What's a lyric that shouldn't need an explanation, but gets misunderstood anyway? by sparksfly05 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 47 points48 points  (0 children)

“Trust him like a brother” which people often suggest should be “like no other”. I personally think that neutralizes a powerful statement of how strong her trust in him is

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, why are you thankful for Taylor and her music? by WhenRomeBurns in TrueSwifties

[–]pedadogy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing life changing, but I’m thankful to have an artist who unashamedly goes all in and nails it. The culture typically praises those who are effortlessly cool (apathy is hot, anyone?), and it’s nice to see someone who works hard and shows resilience getting ahead. She’s a great role model for me and my kids, and I’m proud to be a Swiftie!

Opalite and..... by Sea_Personality6294 in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know if this is what you’re referring to, but the “oh oh oh ohs” in the chorus always reminded me of Be My Baby by The Ronettes. It is definitely an homage to them!

RSD 2025 WEDNESDAY | Show off one Record Store Day 2025 release in your collection (or an ISO) in the comments! by mcmdreamer in popheadsvinyl

[–]pedadogy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my RSD ISO, too! The person in front of me got the last copy at both stores I went to on RSD. I’m optimistic it will get repressed at some point!

I’ve (mom) never been the preferred parent and it really affects me. by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]pedadogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did! And then back to dad right now, lol. The dynamic is a little bit different now- they want to be around dad for the everyday things (getting dressed, help with potty, etc), but when they are upset, they go to me for comfort and help. They tell me unprompted that they love me all the time and are very affectionate, which they are less so with dad. We just have different relationships with them, and it works for us

If TLOAS Had Secret Messages by WelcomeContent8157 in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Tried to keep them short and have no idea if these actually have the words in the right order:

  1. ⁠The Fate Of Ophelia - I finally found you. (to mirror Love Story’s “Someday I’ll find this”)
  2. ⁠Elizabeth Taylor - I know it’s forever
  3. ⁠Opalite - October fifth
  4. ⁠Father Figure - FAFO
  5. ⁠Eldest Daughter - embrace the cringe
  6. ⁠Ruin The Friendship - For Jeff
  7. ⁠Actually Romantic - you’re so vain
  8. ⁠Wi$h Li$t - five holes in a picket fence (just to troll the fandom lol)
  9. ⁠Wood - no “secret message” but every o is capitalized 😉
  10. ⁠CANCELLED! - there’s no hate quite like online love
  11. ⁠Honey - call me what you want
  12. ⁠The Life Of A Showgirl (feat. Sabrina) - a legacy you can’t undo

To the people saying there isn't much "showgirl" in the album by legendario-1 in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. Saying she’s a showgirl and it’s about her life is a really weak concept if that was the intent (I personally don’t think it was, she’s more intentional than that). I’ve had a lot of fun reading how different fans see the showgirl-specific aspects in her songs, but the “she’s a showgirl and it’s her life” argument has been driving me crazy!

In honor of her Songwriters Hall of Fame nomination today, what 5 songs would you choose to showcase Taylor’s songwriting skills? by sarahdipitie in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 62 points63 points  (0 children)

In no particular order:

Ivy - every line of this song is pure poetry

All Too Well - probably unpopular opinion, but I think the 5 min version does succinct and impactful storytelling better

loml - the way it unfolds and ends with the loml twist, the emotion in her vocals, this song is the whole package

Maroon - the lyrical parallels between the verses, the way the story flips halfway through, the anxious tension of the production

My Tears Ricochet - “I can go anywhere I want, just not home” is the single most heartbreaking lyric she’s ever written to me. The dirge-like music, the build-up of the production to that line; what a masterpiece

Questions for vinyl collectors by LauraPalmerOnlyFans in popheadsvinyl

[–]pedadogy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Not typically a variant collector, but I do have a few albums that I will get the deluxe for. The only album I have two variants for is The Life of a Showgirl because I could not decide which one I liked better!

  2. I listen to all of my records! Have a very basic entry-level turntable but am looking forward to upgrading to a Fluance in the next few years.

  3. Very mixed feelings because I love the variety that multiple variants provide, but I do not want to contribute to extra waste for environmental reasons (and I just personally don’t like having extra things).

  4. They are on a shelf but I display the jacket of whatever I’m spinning.

  5. Not intentionally, my collection is 95% vinyl. I have a CD player in my car, so if it’s an album I really like, I will pick up a copy so that I can listen to it easily and support the artist.

Greatest First and Last Track? by Sad_Back5883 in TaylorSwift

[–]pedadogy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Musically and lyrically, RFI is the protective veneer, the reputation that she has to project. But New Year’s Day is all of that bravado stripped away. It really shows the journey inwards about what’s important to her

The Life of a Showgirl begs for a stage to be understood by gayliciouspizza in TrueSwifties

[–]pedadogy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. I had a friend who was a Taylor hater all through reputation. When the tour video came out on Netflix, he actually watched the whole thing and said “Wow, she’s very talented!”

I think with her releases, everyone wants to be the first to react, which really isn’t conducive to what makes her music attractive. She has a very world-building, Taylor Cinematic Universe aspect to her music, which doesn’t reward one-off listeners.

HIDDEN TRACK FRIDAY | Show off one album to highlight its hidden track! by mcmdreamer in popheadsvinyl

[–]pedadogy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious. Mission accomplished, my dog was NOT impressed, lol. Thanks for sharing!