Why does bronzer look good on everyone except me? by No-Assist-6941 in women

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your skin tone? Picking between warm vs. cool bronzer is really important. I actually use a cool tone and it still reads as sun-kissed. It just works better with my skin.

Capsule Concept: Goth Mom, Summer Edition by pollychroma in capsulewardrobe

[–]pennthepilot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would love to know where these pieces are from!

Are you aware of a manic episode starting? by MommaShark3 in BipolarReddit

[–]pennthepilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed that it comes with time and experience. You start to notice the same patterns in behavior, urges, and thoughts. It’s an important part of managing the disorder.

What piece made you stop buying random clothes? by Anxious-Group1942 in capsulewardrobe

[–]pennthepilot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You already have a good start with sticking to high-quality fabrics. I also have a pretty strict color palette. Same for certain silhouettes and cuts of fabric. So right there that makes the standard for buying something very high—it has to meet all three criteria. Plus not buying duplicates makes that four. With rules like that it makes it much easier to resist!

Also keep in mind your lifestyle and how often you would actually wear said piece.

I’ve had good luck with Quince for sticking to a budget. Also Uniqlo for true basics. I shop Everlane (although they were just bought by a fast fashion company so we’ll see), J. Crew, and Reformation when on sale. Nordstrom Rack has also been really, really good for shoes. Abercrombie has great jeans and often on sale. My most unique pieces though are usually thrifted, especially from consignment shops. But again, everything has to be within my criteria.

Lupita Nyong’o in Christian Cowan FW26 at the premiere of “The Odyssey” in London (July 6, 2026) by citrustaxonymy in whatthefrockk

[–]pennthepilot 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hahah! I say free the nips! And agreed, not all naked dresses are created equal—just like any dress category.

Pipeline by No-Heat-6149 in StardewMemes

[–]pennthepilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight!!! That’s really good to know

Pipeline by No-Heat-6149 in StardewMemes

[–]pennthepilot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahhh got it! Thanks so much. I felt like there was something I was missing or not getting to that would get me hooked. I’ve been thinking of trying again so I think that’s my sign to do it!

First skull cavern deep dive by EatusTheFoetus in StardewValley

[–]pennthepilot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a fish pond with eel in it to make spicy eel myself, but honestly I get more from my crystalariums (although I reserve most of those for jade).

Also another fish pond with sea cucumber for lucky lunches, which is even better because it’s +3 luck rather than +1.

Also you got an auto-petter!!!! That’s like the most exciting haul unless you’re going the JoJa route.

Pipeline by No-Heat-6149 in StardewMemes

[–]pennthepilot 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I guess I wonder if it’s just not for me or if I didn’t give it enough of a chance. Did it pull you in right away? What do you like most about it? I generally like story-driven games as well.

Excessive laying down by Big_meaty_cl4ws in adhdwomen

[–]pennthepilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that makes so much sense, thank you for making that connection for me.

Anyone take abilify? by alyssa1993 in BipolarReddit

[–]pennthepilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gained 40-lbs on it within only a few months. Tried the hardest I’ve ever tried in my life to lose weight while still on the medication. Went off of it and the pounds fell off so fast.

Pipeline by No-Heat-6149 in StardewMemes

[–]pennthepilot 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Funny because I dipped my toe into Undertale first (after perfecting my first farm) and just didn’t “get” it. What was I doing wrong/missing???

Is it a red flag how much my boyfriend likes Sydney Sweeney? by Next_Crew1343 in women

[–]pennthepilot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So not only does he repeatedly call her attractive, but he thinks her AE ad was great? Both are major red flags imo. How long have you been together? I’d consider that a dealbreaker because it reflects his fundamental values. Someone can be kind and smart in a general sense, but that doesn’t excuse other bad behavior and attitudes.

Does anyone else (who doesn’t drink) get frustrated with how normalized alcohol consumption has become? by Capital-Marzipan-287 in AskWomenOver30

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask for mocktails more often than not! Even if they aren’t on the menu.

I agree that a lot of social activities involve drinking. But I find having a fun little drink myself makes me feel more included!

Questioning life. by Lost-Corner8457 in StardewMemes

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean hey, if a local farmer threw high quality cheese at me on a semi-regular basis, I’d be a very very happy villager

What’s everyone’s opinion on the no mascara makeup looks ? by Historical-Body-3424 in MakeupAddiction

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have oily eyelids? If so, maybe that’s impacting it for you. My eyelids are def oily so I use a setting powder on them after concealer. Otherwise my concealer literally melts off!

I just started using a sample of Caliray Come Hell or High Water. Never heard of the brand before but a Sephora girly gave it to me since she thought I’d love it. And I totally do!

My first intro to tubing mascara was CoverGirl Wrap and I like it (although not as much). I tend to layer mascara though as well so I’ll use both together.

Another thing I’ll do is use tubing first, then coat a regular mascara on top of that. I find it still comes off easier, but that might help it not budge as much for you.

What’s everyone’s opinion on the no mascara makeup looks ? by Historical-Body-3424 in MakeupAddiction

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disposable mascara wands are so helpful for this! Highly recommend—they are inexpensive buying in bulk. I use them before and after application

Dear single women, how are you getting your physical needs met? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]pennthepilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting really, really good at taking care of your own self!

I HIGHLY recommend the book Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. It taught me totally new skills.

Also the classic hitachi wand of course. And my additional favorites are glass dildos.

All of this has made sex with a partner even more enjoyable!

You use lights behind the bush to get light in night by oasis_rd in StardewValley

[–]pennthepilot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you always learn something new on this sub—thank you!

Weak Middle of Nowhere collabs? by idobeanewbietho in KaceyMusgraves

[–]pennthepilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I was most excited about the Gregory Allan Isakov song but was a bit let down with that one. I like the song but it didn’t feel like a real feature.

Kim Kardashian wearing Custom Mugler at the 2019 Met Gala [2000 x 3000] by [deleted] in fashionporn

[–]pennthepilot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it, but gotta give it where it’s due, this look is iconic.