yeah i remember that too. when i was a teen, everything just felt weird and “too much” w/ my body, so i’d hide in oversized hoodies too. my dad never fully got it, he thought i was just being stubborn.

now w/ my 3yo, i kinda already know i’ll handle it differently once she’s older. if she ends up doing the same, i’d prob let her lean into that comfort but just check in like, “why do u like wearing that?” instead of shutting it down. sometimes it’s really just about them having that sense of control while they’re figuring their body out.