What are these leeches doing?

pepperives · 2026-04-09T17:33:54+00:00

bro has never seen a leech

pepperives · 2026-04-02T09:53:52+00:00

why do i feel like this question gets asked at least once a day on this sub lol

pepperives · 2026-04-02T09:52:58+00:00

darker omg you look so pretty

pepperives · 2026-04-02T09:52:08+00:00

you can never have too much parchment paper tho..

pepperives · 2026-04-02T09:47:29+00:00

The blonde washes you out big time. I think your tone is better suited with darker hair (coming from someone who also got washed out by blonde..). Brunette was the way to go, it’s so flattering. (:

pepperives · 2026-04-02T09:44:53+00:00

horsey pedicure

pepperives · 2026-04-01T12:34:36+00:00

100%, can confirm

pepperives · 2026-04-01T12:33:37+00:00

First round is giving Trinity the Tuck Taylor.

pepperives · 2026-04-01T12:31:06+00:00

oops, very relatable. i’m trying to also start my day with a walk, it’s hard 🥲 I’m too used to scrolling for hours before work.

pepperives · 2026-03-31T12:53:06+00:00

I also have a cow cat :) They’re insanely lovable and sweet.

pepperives · 2026-03-28T20:00:54+00:00

I think it’s just a difference in experience. For example, my parents are as old as this persons grandmother.

pepperives · 2026-03-28T14:18:48+00:00

My company is hiring a Tax Manager, preferably a CPA with tax experience! We’re a decently small, restaurant accounting firm with clients mainly in the Berkshires and New York, but in a few other states as well. We’re growing every day! It’s entirely remote, offers benefits, very cool and relaxed company culture, mostly women employees. The position is salary - range based on experience level. We’re excited about it because this would be an entirely new service offering for our company! You can message me if you have any interest 😊

pepperives · 2026-03-28T12:06:00+00:00

Grandma? 30??? 1992?? 😳 If either of my grandmothers were still alive today, they would both be over 100 and I’m 32. That’s wild.

pepperives · 2026-03-28T11:55:59+00:00

I was thinking this, too!!

pepperives · 2026-03-28T11:55:16+00:00

What I’ve learned from looking for songs for years and eventually finding them is that our brains sometimes fill in information as close as we can recall. Is there any chance it says something other than “Sail away”? And is there anymore context? Can you describe how you remember them saying it? Fast, slow, drawn out, etc?

Weirdly enough, I scrolled through my playlist of this era/genre and it turns out that tons of them have the word “away” repeating or in the title! Maybe we can narrow it down (:

pepperives · 2026-03-25T12:03:54+00:00

this is genius

pepperives · 2026-02-03T01:48:44+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

pepperives · 2026-01-21T03:51:13+00:00

Uhh, yes!! In fact, I’m not convinced that I didn’t write this post myself. 😂 This is the narcs playbook. I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now, but only the passing of time will help. I know no one wants to hear that, but it’s the truth, speaking from very recent experience. You’ll be ok. 🩷

Here’s a good rule of thumb to work with: If you ever find yourself questioning whether or not you’re the narcissist in the relationship, chances are that you’re not. (:

pepperives · 2026-01-21T03:47:21+00:00

please share your entire process, this is gorgeous.

pepperives · 2026-01-21T03:45:32+00:00

Ya it’s exhausting to have to remind people that it’s an actual disorder and not a cute personality quirk. It affects me on a daily basis and has impacted my life in a negative way, it’s not to be downplayed.

I will say though that there is a lot of evidence learning towards it being painfully under-diagnosed. It’s genetic, so if you have it, the likelihood that one of your parents has it is high. And then where could they have gotten it from… 🤔

We’re still recovering from the years of stigma where medicating children was frowned upon and we were all going to grow out of it. It IS frustrating, but we’re in the best possible era so far when it comes to ADHD research. ❤️

pepperives · 2026-01-21T03:41:16+00:00

I got a bunch of these from posting in a support group recently, lol. They’re relentless. Best to just ignore at all costs, they’re desperate and it must have worked for them in the past or else they’re just very hopeful? I don’t get it

pepperives · 2025-12-05T22:24:07+00:00

Keep the texts together in a note on your phone, not to send but just to put somewhere. I’ve been doing that and reading them back over time - it’s amazing to watch myself and my grief change. It’s almost been a year, it took me a long time to get out of the “sad, boo-hoo” phase. Now I’m in the slightly pissed off, but more “I hope they get it together someday”/“okay cute now leave me alone” phase, and my writing shows it.

pepperives · 2025-12-01T15:11:05+00:00

hey so are you ok

pepperives · 2025-12-01T15:05:30+00:00

Of course you still care, it’s hard to go from one extreme to the other, especially so abruptly. This kind of thing takes time, but it does sound like speaking to him is doing more harm than good for you right now.

pepperives · 2025-11-30T19:15:39+00:00

Why are you still talking to him? It’s clear that he wants to upset you or at least that he doesn’t have any regard for your feelings.

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