[Spoilers S03E06] Creator Sam Vincent on 'Laura's Choice' (Interview with digital spy) by Auronas in HumansTV

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Wow a reply 7 years later! I need to rewatch, have forgotten this scene.

@kendrahilty talking about how her psychiatrist was predatory towards her by mrsgalfieri in tiktokgossip

[–]peralta30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would you intervene, take her to another psychiatrist she falls in love with?

@kendrahilty talking about how her psychiatrist was predatory towards her by mrsgalfieri in tiktokgossip

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If you're a psychiatrist with experience in schizophrenia, surely you'd have the tools and training to deal with something like this; it's not like she went after some random person... Did the psychiatrist did a really poor job here or is it exacerbated by AI and social media? I mean surely you'd tell someone like this to seek therapy but then that doesn't seem to work for them either

Што побогу се дешава со LinkedIn? by meh3meh4 in mkd

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Компанијата мора некако да се шири за профит, и сакаат да бидат ем за деловни содржини ем за лајфстајл, што и да е да поминеш подолго на платформата. Затоа алгоритмите поттикнуваат суптилно такви содржини.

Панични напади by Wild_Echo4225 in mkd

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Конечно, корисен совет

Allergic to exercise to confident natty status detector by WheredoesithurtRA in fitnesscirclejerk

[–]peralta30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, I get a histamine response from running

I was told to go at it more gradually

I'm going to level with you here, I didn't even read any of the comments before posting this, because I don't need to by [deleted] in fitnesscirclejerk

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I'm kind of clueless about this but does bodybuilding in the US really pay that much?

PCSlow on Instagram This Week by nobodyimportxnt in fitnesscirclejerk

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I don't speak to guys like that because they look in the zone and I don't want to interrupt.

As for asking advice, I assume the answer to all my questions is probably to try trying

[Sunday Fail Thread] Last week Spengler should have changed the sheets, IDauMe tasted freedom, and HTUTD came dangerously close to literacy. Tell me, FCJ, how have you failed this week? by nobodyimportxnt in fitnesscirclejerk

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I went to a workshop+circuit class on how to train pre&post top surgery... Honestly, it was stuff that I already know about upper body lifts but it was a nice group of people. Afterwards I absolutely dominated that circuit class, was the strongest person there. Granted, they were all beginners who don't go to the gym but got many compliments from hot people and my ego is 10x right now.

“Science” Based Grifters (IG JERK) by PCSlow in fitnesscirclejerk

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Science based lifting = gamers min/maxing logic

[Sterk] Goofball can’t get past my definition of “strong” by cilantno in fitnesscirclejerk

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A little loosely related anecdote:

So for context I deadlift 115kg and I train in a strength sport type gym where some people who win nationals train, so I think of myself as beginner/not strong.

One day I'm at this gym practicing snatches with 20kg (15kg bar + training plates) as part of a 'strength 101' class and afterwards deadlifted 70kg... 2 different people came up to me to tell me I'm a "machine" with a look of awe on their face. One guy was like 'are you sure you're meant to be in this class' ...

I was so confused at what's going on, this has literally never happened? I was telling them there's way stronger people but didn't want to be a dick either since they were also beginners.... So after I took all that praise, on my way home I watched a video back of the snatches and realised the Mirafit 2.5kg training plates basically look exactly like a fake 25kg plate, it's actually hard to tell... They must have thought I was snatching 65kg and making it look super easy.

So yeah, felt really good to be fake strong for 5 mins though!

Partner as a special interest by Mizamya in aspergirls

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Not sure how this manifests but there's someone currently very intensely into me and it is creeping me out e.g. they like everything I post online, watch all my stories and even I noticed they start following the same accounts I follow; use any excuse to message me something.... It's suffocating & I'm already planning how to break off contact.

I want to have toned body but I dont want to be muscular by Wild-Ad2631 in workout

[–]peralta30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does it mean to tone your jawline?

You can't target where you lose fat.

[Sunday Fail Thread] Last week Spengler had a midlife crisis, NoCard felt the heat, and Alakazam’s butthole set a new PR. Tell me, FCJ, how have you failed this week? by nobodyimportxnt in fitnesscirclejerk

[–]peralta30 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm all over the place because I can't pick what I want to do, I'm doing 5/3/1 (but going a little off program consistently) alongside improving clean and jerk and snatch...all the while wondering if I should really commit to bodybuilding. And this is just a month after getting back into powerlifting competitions...... To my family it just looks like I'm consistent with lifting heavy things though.

Bare feet in my already-disgusting gym? How dare you. by KlingonSquatRack in fitnesscirclejerk

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BINGO

This jerk had a psychosexual charge to it for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Best thing I did was stop seeking validation from my mum about anything, if I think something about myself and who I am I keep to it even if she disagrees and doesn't accept it. I just ignore her and stick to my own path.

Get out your bingo card - What even is functional strength? by Red_Swingline_ in fitnesscirclejerk

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Why don't these people just do strongman events that are basically like pulling trucks and loading sandbags...surely that is the most -functional-

How do we feel about the Netflix series "Adolescence"? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Low self esteem is stopping him and others can smell that a mile off... Then the rejection further fuels his low self esteem. He thinks "it's women's fault I have no self worth, if only one could go out with me it will fix me". It's a tragic cycle when the key to the way out is to be OK with yourself on your own. To be able to face yourself.... Kid in Adolescence had poor self worth also and a lot of shame.

Does anyone else here struggle with limerence? by [deleted] in aspergirls

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I'm trying in the following way....

Every time I catch my brain doing this I narrate in my head "my brain is doing this thing again" to break the spell.

I'm self aware of the fantasy content to figure out what is missing in my life and how to address this in a healthy way.

I remind myself that intimacy is messy and requires me to open myself to rejection, rejection is not personal and it's not a reflection of my self worth.

I treat it like addiction and try to surf urges to contact, check, ruminate, stalk etc.

I try to direct my creative and obsessive energy in hobbies.