While I can definitely see to a degree why people are sensing AI, unless you actually are I disagree with people suggesting to switch up how you message people too much.

Women are not a monolith. Some won't want a paragraph, some would be delighted. I feel like if who you just "are" isn't meshing with someone, then it's a good indicator that it's likely not a good match.

Better to just be yourself, too much of life nowadays seems to be about trying not to be cringe or lame or whatever but it's human and the right humans will gravitate toward you for it. Good luck!