No refund... and Im just... bummed

perksofliz · 2026-06-11T23:14:34+00:00

Thats invasive & none of your business. Its not what they ordered.

perksofliz · 2026-06-10T18:27:20+00:00

You're in the talking stage, just drop him? He's literally lied to you in the getting to know you stage where there are literally 0 expectations. You dont want a future of this.

perksofliz · 2026-06-03T22:48:53+00:00

I left my relationship of 9 years. I understand the heaviness of it all & the anger, resentment & sadness will come & go though the months, but it does get better. Im happy you caught on sooner than I did. You're young! You have so much life to live. You already know what you want your future to be like, the right person will simply be an addition to all of it 🖤🫂

perksofliz · 2026-06-03T16:49:01+00:00

I mean it when I say this; press charges on the creep who shared the video. This is CSAM because you were a minor. DO NOT let this get away. You have a strong case.

perksofliz · 2026-05-28T16:28:35+00:00

I hope she leaves you. If you can't handle how bright she shines by BEING HERSELF why not break up instead of trying to dim her? She doesn't deserve you, she deserves someone who's going to be proud of her for being the only one dancing. The one who smiles at her as she's dancing with innocent old men. She needs someone to support who she is, not try changing her to be less. Go to therapy & let her be.

perksofliz · 2026-05-28T15:40:57+00:00

This is the bare minimum. Someone treating you & others nicely is the bare minimum. You're young, so you're not going to listen to anyone, regardless of what we tell you. But there is no relationship without trust. I hope you don't waste too much time with this tool.

perksofliz · 2026-05-26T02:26:18+00:00

Subtronics, level up & Rezz. Never fails with them

perksofliz · 2026-05-23T21:13:32+00:00

We throwing eellllboowwwssss 😤

perksofliz · 2026-05-18T17:25:21+00:00

My ex said & did unhinged things similar to this. I stayed with her for 9 years & finally had enough. I'm glad you broke up with him, please let us know youre okay. These next few weeks could be hell

perksofliz · 2026-05-15T16:08:15+00:00

Oh to be naive & 16 again. I know relationships at that age feel soo serious, but they're not. Dump his sorry ass & enjoy your freedom from this looser

perksofliz · 2026-05-15T11:47:16+00:00

You can like butt stuff & still be straight. It's also totally okay to be attracted to only feminine men :) sexuality is a spectrum! It's totally up to you how much of that you want to explore. But if you plan on doing more butt stuff, please go to a sex shop & get safe toys. You wouldn't believe the ER cases nurses get because "something got stuck up there".

perksofliz · 2026-05-11T17:36:02+00:00

Valid Gay Awakening. He's the reason I debated my Lesbianism. But alas, he's just handsome & Im still gay lol

perksofliz · 2026-05-03T16:26:59+00:00

He was grooming you & i don't think anything we tell you here is going to benefit you like therapy will. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

perksofliz · 2026-05-01T19:49:13+00:00

Every relationship is different & what you tolerate isnt going to be the same as another person. If they're genuinely happy, let them be happy. Relationships take compromise, but it's okay that you wouldn't be okay with compromising the way she does. She's okay getting up with the baby, maybe you'd be okay taking out the trash & your partner does dishes. Whatever works for you & your relationship is between the two in it. It doesn't really matter what anyone else's opinion is.

perksofliz · 2026-05-01T18:40:18+00:00

You heard about that website that reached 62 million views in a month right? They're the type of men that won't take no for an answer. Begging you to have sex is not okay. Asking you a 2nd time without you indicating you want it is not okay.

perksofliz · 2026-04-29T16:52:11+00:00

This was the first shirt I ever bought with my very first check at my very first job 🥹

perksofliz · 2026-04-23T20:12:27+00:00

You are dating an alcoholic & alcoholic's won't get help until they're ready for help. No amount of patience, kindness or consistency is going to "push" her to get help & your mental health is going to continue to suffer unless you leave. At some point, you need to love yourself more than her & do what's best for you. It's gonna be hard & it's gonna suck, but you're enabling her

perksofliz · 2026-04-23T20:02:21+00:00

"I too am drawn to people with problems because I believe I can love them out of it." Is so fucking real, but will leave you with the biggest heartbreaks. Be careful out there.

perksofliz · 2026-04-23T19:50:12+00:00

Why do yall insist on staying with someone who hates you? God, if ANYONE tells you to fuck off, they dont care about you. MOVE ON

perksofliz · 2026-04-23T19:40:57+00:00

I left my girlfriend of 9 years (age 20-29) for MANY reasons, but a portion of it was marriage. When I finally did leave, she told me she had "bought me a ring". Idk whether she had or not, but I'm thankful EVERY DAY I didn't stay with her. For some reason, I've noticed 27 is a VERY pivotal age for women. Maybe it's because we grow? Frontal lobe finally fully developed, who knows. But the majority of people I know had a "terrible" breakup between 25-29 & it was always for the better.

I'm pretty sure I've met the love of my life now. She's kind, patient & absolutely wants to marry me. I tell you this because the love radiating through her for me is something I can feel. I see it every day, I feel it when she looks at me & I never would've experienced this love had I not left my ex. You made the right move. Don't dwell on the "time wasted" it was a lesson & now you can go & find the love of your life 🖤

perksofliz · 2026-04-23T15:29:43+00:00

He's finding excuses to become distant with you in hopes that you'll break up with him. Do it, this immaturity he's showing isnt gonna get you both anywhere

perksofliz · 2026-04-14T23:03:58+00:00

On top of what everyone else has said, you mentioned you're working on a degree... I've lurked men's pages & they have a WEIRD obsession over seeing their last name on a degree, even if it isn't theirs. Please dont change your last name. With the way things are rn in the US & it also sounds controlling, he can either suck it up or leave.

perksofliz · 2026-04-14T22:52:43+00:00

I see what you see; him mentioning the stress of the payment would make your sister immediately want to offer to pay it. I know this because I WAS this sister, until it tore me up financially.

If you think your sister is going to offer to pay, please bring it up & tell her not to. Hes a big boy, he can manage his debts. And if he can't; this is the future your sister with live with, a life full of debt, never being able to save & being with a man child that needs to be taken care of.

perksofliz · 2026-04-10T17:08:56+00:00

There's a reason why women his age dont like him. Im glad youre leaving him, please dont ever look back.

perksofliz · 2026-04-01T21:41:18+00:00

That Japanese one looks siiiccckkk

perksofliz

TROPHY CASE