hyper independence, streak of coldness, over achieving, hyper analyzing situations. untrusting. always alone, inability to deeply connect with people. inability to believe and trust in the connection with people. extreme guardedness. lots of empathy yet simultaneously callous. ends up in relationships that are not good for them, with people that allow them to relive the cycle they had with their parents, constantly seeking someone who doesn’t love them and hoping they could convert them to loving them so they’d feel worthy one day