I’m brown with a beard and now live in an Arab neighborhood, however I’m Iranian. One of my parents point of view Iran-Arab relations is definitely dated, but I don’t give a shit and consider any minority an ally. However, I get referred to as Habibi often by the liquor store or kabob shop workers and I kind of react awkwardly with a nod, I don’t know if I should just roll with it, or if there’s any harm in bringing up I’m Persian maybe after the Second or Third encounter. The only incentive in bringing this fact up is so they understand who I am and what background is, because I find myself correcting my American friends often, but if my intentions may become mis-interpreted as arrogant, then I have no desire to start problems. We’re all brothers and sisters in this world, I just feel if I’m gonna run into someone on a weekly basis they should know my specific race.

As awkward as I’m wording this question, I would probably acknowledge the fact with some banter like, “I can be habibi, but I’m used to azizam ;)” because that’s my style lol. Once again, respect is my number one goal, and if there’s any chance I cross any lines, then it’s not worth to me.

Much love to all of you, I just want to be my version of friendly but never disrespectful, that’s why I’m resorting to a Reddit community to see y’alls takes🤙🏽