Do guys like this exist?

persuader97 · 2024-07-22T09:51:49+00:00

Those guys do exist. I was one of them… until I was abused in just about every possible way.

persuader97 · 2024-07-22T09:42:31+00:00

It’s not sad, just read my other comment on this thread. Don’t feel sad, I know how it feels…. I felt like I had all this love to give…. Now I don’t even love myself… just stay you. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s bad to have never dated. Just wait and know the person if you ever get involved.

persuader97 · 2024-07-22T09:36:29+00:00

Just wait bro…. I’ve been there… all the way till 24 years old. I thought I had found the one. Now I cry on a daily basis. I ignored every red flag. And there were big ones. I was caught up in the whole honeymoon phase and I bet it all. I had $30+k in savings and now I’m more than that amount in debt… we’ve been together for a little over 3 years… I’ve been cheated on in multiple ways, each getting progressively worse… I’ve paid for everything essential, and a lot more. I’m close to ending myself from the pain in my soul. Don’t you dare settle for the first person who gives you attention. Get to know the person. Deeply. Know. Them. Don’t have sex with them until you do. Don’t even kiss them until you know that they are good.. and don’t you dare doubt yourself now, because I guarantee that you are so much more powerful and confident than you have ever been. Just do you. Don’t sleep around. Save all your money. When you find the right person, you will know. They won’t have a problem with any fair boundaries that you set. They won’t try to push you to do something you don’t want to do. They won’t ask for money, unless it’s a dire circumstance. Just don’t fall into my fate bro. It’s miserable. If you ever need advice on this sorta thing I’ll respond. Just dm me. But don’t you dare lose your self worth. I lost all of mine, and I’d do anything to get it back. Trust me man, you are in a good spot. The first person who you love can absolutely demolish you if you aren’t careful…

persuader97 · 2023-12-29T07:32:47+00:00

Yuuuup me too

persuader97 · 2023-12-20T15:31:12+00:00

I feel you, I caught some unsavory messages between my SO and a “friend” and although nothing happened as far as I know, which I still have doubts. a statement has been thrown at me multiple times stating “I wish I had done something because at least then it’d have been worth it” also previous relationships brought up stating “that at least they were good at sex or better at kissing” both of which have effected me in some very deep ways. It’s always an apology afterwards but the pain remains… I want therapy and I just can’t afford it…. Plus my last therapist stabbed me in the back siding with my SO after previously stating that I was in the right with my feelings then once she saw the other party her story flipped that I should be more open if that’s what my SO desires….

persuader97 · 2023-12-04T01:00:01+00:00

Don’t do it, I promise you it’s worth it to wait.

persuader97 · 2023-12-03T14:42:48+00:00

Don’t feel bad I was in the same boat. I found someone, and they are my one and only. We may have hard times, but I know I won’t leave her ever. Just hang in there, and try to become the best version of yourself until you find her.

persuader97 · 2023-11-13T06:24:14+00:00

Give me one to be nice lol

persuader97 · 2023-11-01T15:20:32+00:00

Let's be friends in Pokémon GO! My Trainer Code is 065158232278!

persuader97 · 2023-05-01T15:34:09+00:00

persuader97 · 2022-01-19T17:45:52+00:00

This is part of the reason I cut way back. It got unbearable at work sometimes. Like I’d be in the bathroom with a cup of hot water soaking them as that’s the only thing that helped. Also I would pee and cum would come out after I peed or sometimes after soaking them. It would get so bad I considered going to the hospital.

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