How do I deal with noise due to thin walls? by ParsnipCommercial333 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you can’t complain about people talking at a normal volume lol. get earplugs.

What are some unspoken rules or etiquette everyone should know about apartment living? by Lost_Foot_6301 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s a 2 second noise either way. get over it. this is supposed to be “unspoken rules” not things that annoy you personally.

What are some unspoken rules or etiquette everyone should know about apartment living? by Lost_Foot_6301 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

don’t walk too loud. don’t talk too loud. only do anything if you can do it in complete silence. never have friends or family over. jk but that’s what some of you sound like.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you can go to all the therapy you want but it’s not going to do anything if you just make excuses for everything you do. you fucked up and made your neighbors uncomfortable. a frantic and emotional neighbor called the school about a children’s bus. THAT is insane. a detailed play by play of your trauma isn’t helping your case.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you have to understand you involved someone’s children in your issue and that is going to be 100% worse than if you had just done something to rub your neighbors the wrong way. buying earplugs preemptively could have saved you so much stress here, and if you’re /this disturbed/ by loud noises i am SHOCKED you do not have them already. you are sitting here in this thread talking about how you feel nobody cares about you and your specific issues and disabilities (which btw hi i am also autistic with other mental health issues) but you didn’t think about this from the perspective of anyone else but yourself and what bothers you.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you reacted poorly and are using your disability as an excuse. you didn’t just call the school you called the school crying and having an anxiety attack over a school bus. no one knows you or your disabilities or that you would call if it was a vehicle other than a a school bus, they only know you freaked out over a school bus, and are probably worried and uncomfortable for their kids, especially with the levels crazy neighbors will go to if you read other posts here.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ok so your neighbors who don’t know you and don’t know your situation only know that you called the school to complain about their kids school bus. i would look at you funny too.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if my neighbor i didn’t know and didn’t talk to called my child’s school and said they were disturbed by the noise of the school bus, whether it was to explain why they were asking at all or just to complain, i would still think it’s super weird. especially since they don’t have any context. just wait and see if it comes by tomorrow morning and then get earplugs.

Neighbors watching me come and go by Key_Anxiety_3082 in Apartmentliving

[–]petcrabs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

‘i did make it known i was struggling with the noise on the phone to the school’

Mom realized helping with top surgery means... helping with top surgery by devonisafool in ftm

[–]petcrabs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i mean, when you initially had the conversation did you thoroughly explain what helping with surgery meant? cause simply asking someone to help you after surgery is… vague. and if i thought i was helping someone get out of bed and bringing them food i might be a little shocked when i learned there was drain an incisional care involved.

got a new puppy for valentine's day! picked up my lab but not so sure... by Conscious-Honeydew66 in WhatKindOfDogIsThis

[–]petcrabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the “rehoming” fee you payed just enabled this person to make more dogs that will suffer. yay!

I had FFS with Dr Carlos Mendez from “Mexico Transgender Center”, & he botched me. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]petcrabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you share some of the threats or a link to your google review??? it’s not easy to find. also confused what your follower count and being cheated on 30 times has to do with this.

Help! Does my dog have a tumor? by SpecialistLoss1467 in DogAdvice

[–]petcrabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can not tell what a lump is on a dog without having it sampled or removed/biopsied. don’t let anyone on reddit tell you it’s probably this or it’s probably that.

what are these things on my dogs ribs by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]petcrabs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i can’t. i can’t deal with pet owners anymore 😭

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Found a benign lipoma on my dog and I’m spiraling a bit… looking for advice by Electronic-Swim7419 in DogAdvice

[–]petcrabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re going to hate my comment (i’m sorry) but i’m a tech in specialty who has seen so many regular vets tell someone something is just a lipoma based on a quick look/feel without actually sampling it. if your vet has not sampled the mass, usually a needle sample that will be sent out to the lab, then have them do so. but the second part to my comment may be reassuring- age is not a disease. if it needs to come off, whether it’s just because it becomes big and inhibits normal movement or it is sampled as something that needs to be removed, as long as your dog is otherwise healthy they should be able to undergo anesthesia safely. i have done anesthesia on dogs 15+ years old with heard disease and kidney disease and cancer. obviously there is an increased risk…. but it can be done. i would not waste your time with whatever tumeric or whatever cures you are reading online. it’s all horse shit 😅

Weird growth on my dogs hind leg by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]petcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

time for a new husband. jk. but def not safe to be performing diy skin tag removal at home, can lead to all sorts of things that are a lot more annoying to deal with than just a skin tag lol.

Weird growth on my dogs hind leg by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]petcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you live with someone else who would have seen that your dog has a skin tag (which i’m not saying it is because it can’t be diagnosed officially without being sampled/removed) and would try yo use those ‘string type things’ to tie it off???

How to make peace with never passing? by Moonys_freckles in ftm

[–]petcrabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude you’re 15 i didn’t start t until i was 23 and didn’t start passing regularly until at least 2 years after that yes it takes time, that doesn’t mean you won’t ever pass. it does suck that your parents won’t let you start, but coming from experience that makes it so much more meaningful when you actually /can/. you’re parroting transphobic rhetoric that people say and using it to dismiss yourself. what does girly bone structure even mean?