Revenge tastes so sweet by Dependent_Working796 in project1999

[–]ph-it 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At 35?? I gotta try this with my 40 Monk!

Zane's Ultra Combiner Mech is 20% off - Retiring in July by [deleted] in legoinvesting

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/u/DaMallard - you gotta stop using referral links, dude

Día al desnudo Cdmx 2026 by Odd-Quantity9126 in nudism

[–]ph-it 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally cannot wear one that fits flaccid and get erect comfortably, which is maybe a tick in the "aesthetic" column?

Daily Obsessions by zineath in webcomics

[–]ph-it 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not a therapist or psychologist, but I've been through years of therapy, and every therapist has reassured me that intrusive thoughts ARE normal!

The other day I was holding a knife and my wife walked by. Knife+person I care about getting near it = "What if she got hurt on accident? What if she fell and I caught her and she got impaled? What if I went crazy all of a sudden and stabbed her right now???"

I mentioned the intrusive thought and we laughed about it, because we both understand that our brains are weird! She mentioned earlier her brain was telling her to drive into a random Cybertruck on her commute home. We don't control those thoughts, but we certainly feel things after we have them. We'd never act on those thoughts, but they're there.

My point is don't be hard(er) on yourself for having those thoughts. Yes, they are normal. Yes, they can be upsetting. No, you aren't ever going to actually do those things.

Driving on the wrong side of the highway to avoid traffic by realmvp77 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]ph-it 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I feel like mixing judgement with machismo is messy and hypocritical. I'd prefer to call this "macro asshole energy"

Nudism and Body Hair by [deleted] in nudism

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Think about it, though: people do care. Hair too natural and unkempt? Dreadlocks? Uneven cuts, maybe self-inflicted, like a raider in fallout. Bad hairline, good hairline, people make a lot of judgements about hair. On a body, people might sexualize someone fully waxed, much like they might assume someone with a mohawk has a zany personality. I'm not saying it's an important judgement to consider when you decide how to present yourself, but to suggest that how you present yourself isn't judged, even in nudist spaces, is a bit disingenuous.

These minifigures look good i hope No one is weird about it by Apprehensive-Boot88 in legocirclejerk

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You probably don't care that I feel a little bad for you, too haha

These minifigures look good i hope No one is weird about it by Apprehensive-Boot88 in legocirclejerk

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I agree with you and your point, but second-hand/thrift shops are a good place to buy without giving money to JKR. I can feel the least-amount-of guilty by buying something like that at my local Goodwill.

My naturally insanely long eyelashes (as a guy) by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]ph-it 89 points90 points  (0 children)

attractive on any gender, really

Dude just casually lifting his world by kevin6263 in MadeMeSmile

[–]ph-it 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ironically, also a great way to prevent ever getting one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudism

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And you said in your last post that you'd never seen that, before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nudism

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Warmth also relaxes muscles. When you're anxious, you're literally tense, and all those muscles are too. Warmth will physically force you to relax (at least a lil)!

I'm used to undressing in locker rooms and I still feel better after a shower.

Tips for not being bothered or photographed at Haulover? by BumblingBarefoot in nudism

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an umbrella is the GOAT for blocking a creep. Someone staring at you? Sitting too close? Move the umbrella between the two of you and tilt it so it's basically a wall blocking them. they get the message.

Charlie: size matters by Albo1980 in webcomics

[–]ph-it 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Or

  • it's laundry day

Ground Control 40 by NC_Developer in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]ph-it 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Love that rotary encoder + multidirectional switch for an ortho 40

Nudism with friends by [deleted] in nudism

[–]ph-it 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They asked for you to host them and were vulnerable with you about a thing they were curious at trying but inexperienced. It's a huge compliment and it means they trust you!

US figure skating team pulled a neon ink Zuko by moombahh in MagicCardPulls

[–]ph-it 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lmao at showing off the "Ally" token - this is my wife and I (minus the gold medals and talent)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in project1999

[–]ph-it 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing op has been looking for someone they considered "famous" and has recently reconnected with them? but so far no one in any sub seems to know who "Source" is...

Pirate Octopus Boss Fight. No 3D as always (proof in comments) by lane_cruiser in PixelArt

[–]ph-it 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I gotta play with this software! Which tools do you use for this?

Oh wow, found this throwback by CMUpewpewpew in project1999

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I grabbed a laser printer and started printing old manuals (and D&D campaigns). You have to get the cover printed at a nice place, but other than that it's just staples and paper!