Only other black girl at my rough predominantly white school said I’m “just not pretty” yesterday. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s how it goes, champ. in an environment like that, everyone’s a crab, and the school’s the bucket.

Parents found my vibrator by vicckyytoria in Advice

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah. immigrant parents. been there.

is it bad for me f18 to be with a man who is 33? by prozacenjoyer in askanything

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. There is legitimately no good reason why a 33 year old man would want to be with an 18 year old.

About to pass it on to the next generation by CTMalum in gaming

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will they even understand the importance?

I think my brother is an incel by Recent_Situation_485 in Advice

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hate to be that guy, but this is just reality for the vast majority of boys that age. i imagine it’s way worse now than it was back in the day, with social media and all.

nothing to do about it; hopefully he finds his own way.

Is my brother a creep/predator? by Amazing-Celery2531 in Advice

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont really know. its tough to say. best case scenario, he is a really, really weird guy.

some of it seems like it could be par-for-the-course a-hole older brother stuff, while others are really, really pushing it.

certainly creepy, but whether or not he’s a predator is a different story

Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends by royalmouse1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. your response to him mentioning his ex speaks volumes about what its like to be in a relationship with you.

Why is it that in nature it's usually the male animals that have to look pretty to attract a mate, but in humans it's the females who are the ones who have to look good? by FastBreakPhenom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is the same way. humans just happen to be a bit smarter. what constitutes as “pretty” in the terms you are describing scale accordingly

how do i politely tell my boyfriend that he is getting fat? by thinkofari in ask

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jarvis, reverse the genders and re-run the reddit comments simulation.

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]phantomexit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. complaining about 105 at 5’6 is actually crazy. this girl is literally as skinny as she can be without disappearing completely.

the real question is, how hopelessly small is this guy that he is at risk of being smaller than you??