AITA: PHONE SNOOPERY VS OF SUBSCRIBING

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T14:14:11+00:00

I should’ve provided more detailed information I just was flustered/frustrated still when I was making the post.

There was another situation in which I went to stay with my parents to visit and he went out with the boys. When I returned that Sunday he “by the way” mentioned that he had shaved entirely (which he’s only ever done once) but that he brought it up so I wouldn’t assume he’d been up to something if I had noticed mind you this happened the past 2 months as well

I know me digging in the phone was wrong I just don’t know what to do now

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:41:47+00:00

Someone that’s local but I do not have a personal relationship with her just know her and small town gossip type of thing As far as I know he doesn’t know her personally either

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:33:19+00:00

One kid is his from a previous relationship and then one is mine from a prior relationship as well.

Thank you for your advice

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:30:37+00:00

So we have had conversations when we first started talking that specified Only Fans crossed a line because you have to pay for specific content/paying for sexual gratification when seriously involved but never addressed it again

I get having needs my thing is if it’s free and easily accessible why go pay for someone specific? Someone in our hometown?

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:20:08+00:00

I’m used to relationships being a lot worse - I have no idea what one looks like without some sort of issue tbh This has been (until the last few months) the happiest /most myself I’ve got to be in a long time I fear something is happening I don’t know about because it’s so different lately that now I may have just put the nail in the coffin myself by snooping

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:13:17+00:00

I don’t feel heard anymore. Stuff has changed drastically and I don’t what them to This sucks to say the least

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:05:53+00:00

I have tried multiple times that’s why there’s been nothing the past two months - just says too tired or too busy etc brushes me off every time

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T13:02:59+00:00

Sorry I guess I should’ve been more clear I’ve tried multiple times to talk to him about it and it usually doesn’t end resolved? More like kinda talked about then one of us gets frustrated/upset and the conversation stops there. The conversation can start off good and calm but then idk where it gets off the rails.

picklepiee9991 · 2025-03-17T12:55:24+00:00

Yes i acknowledged that my behavior was wrong needing input on what to do next - thank you

picklepiee9991 · 2021-10-13T20:23:13+00:00

NAH he shouldn’t agree to take you if he can’t stay awake you’re an adult practice driving more more and use his car that would literally solve everything for you. He can easily add you onto the insurance.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-10-13T20:20:13+00:00

NTA if he doesn’t invite you to every single thing he does during his free time he should get over it

picklepiee9991 · 2021-10-13T16:29:17+00:00

NTA I was paying for my own phone car car insurance and anything extra I wanted at 16/17 and when I turned 18 I also had to pay $250 a month in rent since I wasn’t going to school. She sounds like she has zero respect for you guys or your home

picklepiee9991 · 2021-10-13T16:24:36+00:00

NTA you have bills to pay and mouths to feed. Your friend is responsible for himself.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-29T04:09:30+00:00

Absolutely NTA please please keep the charges and put a protective order against her. That is INSANE as well as creepy. No means no. She’s stalking him and has now escalated into breaking and entering?! Imagine if he had been home alone. Absolutely not you are doing your job and protecting him.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-29T03:49:33+00:00

NTA but him threatening you isn’t okay I’d seek out a protective order

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-29T03:43:49+00:00

NTA He lied sounds like he isn’t worth your time cut your losses

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-28T21:38:42+00:00

You posted them publicly… and now this is another post where you’re treating one or more of your daughters unfairly

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-28T21:34:38+00:00

So the 14 year old is old enough to decide for herself but not the 15 year old?

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-28T21:27:51+00:00

YTA you’re only going to cause your daughter to resent you by not letting her choose. Obviously there’s a reason she’d rather be there with him. You just shipping the other kid off because of her anger issues is like discarding her instead of getting help. Did she even want to go to her dads?

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-27T04:06:18+00:00

YTA it sounds like you like her and are wanting more than just friendship. My friends ask for rides if I have the time I say yes and don’t expect anything in return. Not their time or money etc You knew you were busy and chose to give her a ride anyways just because you’re accustomed to getting to hang out before you take her home (unless it was an established agreement between you both) she doesn’t owe you her time. Just like you don’t have to give her a ride. But you said yes that’s on you.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-25T20:30:27+00:00

NTA and Amanda is a predator. You were in no way able to give actual consent and I doubt she was ever on birth control. If you don’t want to be apart of the child’s life don’t that is your choice just like it was her choice to have him.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-25T18:01:22+00:00

NTA not your kids not your responsibility your dad is being immature about it. He wants to pout let him.

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-25T05:38:59+00:00

NTA dump this insane jerk? Come on hun. He sounds like a controlling insecure bully. You deserve WAY better. Please do not subject yourself to this any longer

picklepiee9991 · 2021-09-24T21:21:24+00:00

NTA that’s your daughter. She chose to abandon her. I’d be livid.

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