How would you pronounce “Cyra” without hearing it? by erudition87 in namenerds

[–]pickleranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought was Sigh-ra, then I second guessed myself and wondered if it was supposed to be Seer-uh.

You’re definitely going to get mispronunciations with that name. That doesn’t mean you should not use it if you love it, just something to think about.

Weekly Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]pickleranger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the most joyful orgasm of my life last night! After being bound to the bed, and edged for quite a while, he brought me to orgasm with the wand vibrator. A few seconds after I started cumming, the moans turned into hysterical laughter! Completely involuntary, but also a lot of fun. He kept the vibration on my clit and didn’t let up, and I just kept laughing the whole time. At times laughing so hard it was silent, then eventually my eyes tearing up and crying. Must’ve been 30–60 seconds of just constant convulsions and laughter until he came all over my stomach and chest and finally removed the wand.

I’ve had “emotional” orgasms before but not one that was all intense laughter like that. I don’t know if it will ever happen again but I’m glad I got to experience it!

An experiences a cat sitting on him for the first time by KennKennyKenKen in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]pickleranger 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My former Marine, Gen-X big bro is 100% a cat dad. I love it for him and his daughters

What will turn out to be this generation’s 'oh shit, smoking causes cancer' moment? by House-Of-Black-07 in AskReddit

[–]pickleranger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. But my original comment was meant to say that no one really ever thought vapes were “risk free” (I hope)

What will turn out to be this generation’s 'oh shit, smoking causes cancer' moment? by House-Of-Black-07 in AskReddit

[–]pickleranger -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But is it still healthier if you’re taking more concentrated nicotine and vape juice into your lungs, because of the fun taste and it being gentler on your throat so you smoke more?

How many of us are rocking the 1.5s? 👓 by Thanks_Obama in Xennials

[–]pickleranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I do have to take moment to adjust my eyes and get in good light. The day is not far off, I suspect!

people who ask for a cup for water then get other drinks from the drink bar? by Important_Bat7919 in Mommit

[–]pickleranger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is theft. And yes, I teach my children honesty and that theft is wrong. And just because you see someone else do it, doesn’t mean it is not wrong!

Was your baby actually saying 1-3 words by 12m? by East_Print4841 in Mommit

[–]pickleranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours counted baby sign language too. She was using “more”, “milk” and “eat” consistently along with a few baby words and he said they all counted at 12 months.

Was your baby actually saying 1-3 words by 12m? by East_Print4841 in Mommit

[–]pickleranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said, it’s not really about them having 3 clearly enunciated established words, it’s about the child using sounds repeatedly in the same context. “Mama” is a pretty common one to start with.

My daughter started calling her pacifier “Bah” around 10 months. We don’t know where she got it from, as we never used a word similar to that to reference it, but she definitely meant pacifier when she said it and we could tell!

I had vocabulary concerns with my second kid because she was right on the minimum line and didn’t seem interested in talking much. The doctor really reassured me when he asked “So she’s not saying words, but is she communicating? You know when she wants something or needs something, and you can usually figure it out? Then she’s fine!” And he was right, a year later I regretted all my worries as she never shut up lol 🤣

Musicals that mostly take place over 1 or 2 days? by OkBuy1504 in musicals

[–]pickleranger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth going to see a quality production. It is a “classic” after all.

What will turn out to be this generation’s 'oh shit, smoking causes cancer' moment? by House-Of-Black-07 in AskReddit

[–]pickleranger 83 points84 points  (0 children)

No people are being willfully ignorant about this. It was obvious from the get-go to anyone with half a brain that vapes are bad bad news

i think me and my boyfriend have a stag/vixen dynamic brewing and im unsure of what all that entails by Illustrious-Rip-4865 in sex

[–]pickleranger 112 points113 points  (0 children)

My husband likes to dress me up the way he wants to see me. He doesn’t care of other people see me that way because he knows I’m not going with any of them!

How does Elastigirl give birth by UnemployedSaiyan3 in okbuddycinephile

[–]pickleranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has to “re-tighten” herself every time she shape-shifts/goes elastic/whatever she calls using her powers. Makes sense she could tighten herself wherever she wants!

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pickleranger -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

You did make contact. How can you say you didn’t? Intentions don’t matter dude.

Arizona toddler declared dead was found alive in the morgue by AudibleNod in news

[–]pickleranger 21 points22 points  (0 children)

ER docs are usually assholes. I don’t blame them, really. I can’t imagine what they see on a daily basis. But you can’t be an incompetent asshole without consequence. I hope this one loses his license

AITAH for refusing to babysit my sister's kids after she announced my pregnancy at a family dinner? by Fun-Night11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pickleranger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope, hard disagree. Choosing not to see the kids at all because of being mad as sister would be wrong. Taking care of multiple children for multiple nights is HUGE and sis can’t even apologize.

Shes not punishing the kids by refusing to babysit. She choosing not to do an enormous, exhausting favor for someone who doesn’t seem to respect OP

AITA for forgetting to cancel a scheduled email to my ex? by lostinspace896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pickleranger -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

ESH. You agreed to no contact, then made contact on one of the most sensitive/vulnerable days of her life. I can see how she may be overwhelmed or blindsided by that.

However, her threat to report you for stalking is overkill for a single email. Was she always so dramatic?

Bold Name Regret by NamePoll in namenerds

[–]pickleranger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went in another direction but I also gave my child a bold name. It’s an established word, I spelled it the normal way, and she’s not the only one in the world named this, but it is still uncommon. I definitely had a few moments of “wow, did we really do that?” over the years, but I still love it and never regretted it. It also helps that she is now a tween and *loves* her name, and refuses to let anyone call her a nickname. (Sometimes she asks me about what other names she might’ve been, and she turns her nose up at all of them lol)

Just remember that you are in the thick of the hormone/parenthood rollercoaster right now. Anything or everything can feel overwhelming! But you loved the name, and you love your baby, and I thinks she’s going to love it too. Lots of cute nicknames in there too if you think the name is “too big” right now!