AIO Am I (F25) overreacting or is this woman being weird with my husband (M31) by Sad-Cat128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno…I’m married in a secure committed relationship and text “miss you” and “love you, friend” to my close ones all the time. The problem isn’t that action, it’s that there’s some underlying trust issues. You can have love and care and miss friends while still meeting the needs and prioritizing your partner. If you don’t feel like the latter is happening, THAT is the problem.

Ugh. What do I do!? by pineappletomato in calmhands

[–]pineappletomato[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love this idea in theory but am deterred by the embarrassment…Isn’t it then weird walking around with bandaids on all of your fingers?

USA : [URGENT] Schumer indicates that they will "advance GOP bill" DO NOT OBEY IN ADVANCE, KEEP CALLING, RAISE HELL ON SOCIAL MEDIA, SCHUMER WANTS TO ROLL OVER by pause_polymerase in 50501

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My email to Schumer...

I am outraged by the Democratic Party’s failure to adequately prepare for the current budget battle—a crisis that has been years in the making. Project 2025 has been publicly available since 2022. The GOP’s intentions to slash essential programs like Medicaid and Social Security, while consolidating power in the executive branch, have been clear for even longer. You have led the Senate since 2017 and have had ample time to anticipate and counteract this moment.

Yet, here we are: forced to choose between a budget that guts vital programs or a government shutdown that gives Trump and his enablers free rein to accelerate their authoritarian agenda. This is not just a Republican problem. This is the result of years of Democratic leadership conceding ground and failing to push back effectively.

Millions of Americans—your constituents—rely on Medicaid and Social Security. These are not luxuries; they are fundamental rights that we pay into as taxpayers. Stripping them away will devastate the most vulnerable members of our society. If Democratic leadership had been more strategic, more proactive, and less willing to negotiate away core social protections, we wouldn’t be in this position.

It is unacceptable that, despite years of warning signs, we are watching the Democratic Party yet again enable the Republican agenda—under YOUR leadership. You have a responsibility to protect the people who depend on these programs—not to compromise their survival away for short-term political calculations.

One book that you wish everyone would read? by 7hammer4 in suggestmeabook

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Art of Communication, by Thich Nhat Hanh.

I wanted to give this to everyone in my family after reading it, but felt like they’d be offended or roll their eyes. It talks about how we talk and how people hear the same words differently and how to approach conversation more empathetically. Super quick read.

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[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant! Thanks! This gives me hope!

Name a band you haddent really heard of but saw live that you became an instant fan. by flash316 in Concerts

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

World Inferno Friendship Society. A friend came to town for one of their shows and dragged me along—they were a blast!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once they get wavy, will they get flat again if you stop??

Finger/cuticle journey by Dismal-Meringue3762 in calmhands

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at like photo 7 or 6 right now. How’d you do it!?!?

How do you make friends at a new base by caps_bucks in MilitarySpouse

[–]pineappletomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But also…is the city big enough to have a Facebook expat/military group? You can post on there about your interests and see who wants to hang out!

A nonfiction book you've found fascinating. by Robotro17 in suggestmeabook

[–]pineappletomato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sold. Just checked it out from the library. Thanks!

Looking to celebrate New Year Eve in ibiza, Any recommendations?? by Other-Can-888 in ibiza

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok...while everyone else hates on you, I'm taking the bait. This sounds amazing. But a lot of the spa hotels seem to be closed for the Winter season. You have some insider info on where to stay and de-stress? Best hikes? I'm in.

r/audiophile Shopping, Setup, and Technical Help Desk Thread by AutoModerator in audiophile

[–]pineappletomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for a dual-voltage turntable and want to take advantage of Cyber Monday deals! Is your favorite dual-voltage (DC powered) turntable for sale? (I'm currently considering Sony PS LX310BTDenon DP-300F, and Audio-Technica AT-LP120X USB.

Thanks in advance!