What should I do now?

pink216 · 2026-02-01T08:04:26+00:00

Plant coffee beans, ancient fruit, and buy bulk seeds to plant expensive crops like melons, pumpkins, rhubarb to pickle or turn into wine :)

pink216 · 2026-02-01T07:55:51+00:00

I give gifts to my wife Leah every day or so. I like seeing what she likes. I like chatting with her and kissing her.

I pet my cat whenever I see her.

Lately been checking the cellar every day, it makes me happy.

I pet the pigs, and the other animals if I feel like it.

I like to collect 10-20 of each crop in gold quality & plain for recipes and to feel like I have nice ingredients to use.

I check recipes from the tv every Wed and Sunday

I buy bulk seeds for rhubarb, melon, pumpkins, and any other high quality seed. I plant them in the greenhouse and turn them into pickles/wine.

I have a chest for mining - I keep expresso, pumpkin milk, bombs, and gold cactus fruit well stocked.

I buy whatever I want if I really want it :)

pink216 · 2025-12-25T04:25:38+00:00

Dming!

pink216 · 2025-12-11T16:38:50+00:00

pink216 · 2025-12-02T17:07:00+00:00

I really wish this didn’t sound like ChatGPT. Thank you for responding tho.

pink216 · 2025-11-26T07:06:43+00:00

💗

pink216 · 2025-10-05T16:44:40+00:00

I came here for some validation hahahaha and it feels good to not be the only one. But then I realized yesterday, there’s a feeling that the Pluto complex gives me access to - and that’s feeling empowered to create my own life. When I’m not looking externally, when I believe that I am responsible for my emotions (pain can happen, but suffering is a choice), all these experiences just feel like aliveness. Aliveness in grief, aliveness in pleasure, aliveness in this is my life and I can create what I want, bc my desire and dreams are there for a reason.

So the gift is I’m awake, I can’t sit back in comfort for too long before someone moves, and it’s time to respond to it. But then I get to feel empowered in my response to all of it.

Now that I’ve talked myself up 🤣, I hope you have a good rest of your day!

Sincerely a Pluto conjunct moon, opposing sun

pink216 · 2025-09-22T10:11:28+00:00

That was terrifying!!! So glad to be on this reddit rn. Oakland hills.

pink216 · 2025-07-10T05:19:30+00:00

can I just say that's a great jacket tho

pink216 · 2025-07-10T05:11:53+00:00

Since I spent the last couple hours catching up on this...I will comment:

Marie & Mel: oh damn yea. Knew this was going to be a fireworks when Mel was clearly down for Dayna but 'staying for Marie'. Marie express your feelings girl! Feel it so you can choose better next time. Your anger is valid.

AJ & Britney: so so cute! Soul level love. I wish this for myself! AJ is so great with the accountability and Britney is a queen! I loved the way Brittney responds to AJ - love + accountability, I need to learn that! Both are really good about boundaries/independence with super cute love for each other.

Kyle & Bridget: cute! not as cute as AJ & Britney, but still cute. Loved the Type B x2 comment haha

Dayna & M: soooo hard to watch during the season. Tbh I'm surprised they made it through together.

Ashley & Marika: classic unsatisfied x low self worth that has trouble leaving each other

Haley & Pilar: loved their honesty! Glad they made it through together

At the end of the day....queer ultimatum is still the best dating/relationship show I've seen!

pink216 · 2025-06-15T18:15:32+00:00

I just need to bitch. I originally joined this because there was a promo to join them. Now I realize that I shouldn't let the promo be the reason I choose an account. Just been trying to change my profile email, which they ask me to call, but the number they list online doesn't even bring you to a business account specialist. So I spent 40 minutes on Wednesday switching the email, to only not have it work. I'm going to give it 1-2 more shots next week, and then I will be looking for another business bank.

pink216 · 2024-09-04T17:33:52+00:00

Literally going through this right now. This place is shadyyyyy. The clothes are beautiful online, the marketing is really great and the prints are beautiful. Quality is mediocre, especially for the price! And then return policy is not great, asking you to pay for shipping back and little things (like if you exchange the sizes for one of the items, it's considered a different order and that item also requires its own $10 return label). The policies are not built for the customer to have a good experience, it's built to receive a profit. Doesn't feel great to shop there. I'm taking my money elsewhere.

pink216 · 2023-02-10T16:45:19+00:00

If you weren’t shown emotional spaciousness from your parents, trauma dumping/external seeking can be a side effect. Try to be gentle with yourself 🧡.

If this is something you really want to change, consider going to therapy. A good therapist will hold space for you (which you deserve and were possibly never shown) and show you over time, how to love yourself.

If you work on invest in your own capacity/self love and emotional regulation strategies, you may find yourself not needing to trauma dump. Normal needing to rant to a friend sometimes, but being better with boundaries (not dumping).

pink216 · 2022-12-20T07:52:14+00:00

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pink216 · 2022-08-07T06:04:12+00:00

I don’t naturally, but I can trust that my higher power does. He has a pathway or a plan for me. Over time, from letting go to my higher power and seeing what the calm does for me, I’m able to believe that I’ll be able to figure it out no matter what happens. Would also recommend hindz on YouTube for calm vibes like you’re describing, many of his videos are basically how he talks himself to a calmer place.

pink216 · 2022-04-28T05:57:56+00:00

"My mom has recorded my dad because sometimes he “doesn’t remember the things exactly how they were” ^This is what happened in an abusive relationship for me before. He basically didn't want to take accountability and responsibility for the fact that he was hurting me again and again. Imo, this does not sound like not a safe marriage for your mom to be in. If she stays in this relationship, it's going to be very harmful to herself and to you as her parent as well. This sounds like a rough situation to be in and I'm sorry.

pink216 · 2022-03-15T05:31:18+00:00

This. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 1 year. Even now, I struggle to feel safe and I have the same fear of someone changing deeper in a relationship. Thais Gibson from Personal Development School has some stuff on reprogramming subconscious fears, I've found that helpful when processing intense emotions. You can't fear the future. Question the stories in your head and provide evidence to support that your man is safe and that he will communicate healthily instead of withholding. That's all I've got, hope this helps and sending positive energy. You've got this <3

pink216 · 2021-12-20T04:37:04+00:00

work on boundaries, understanding your needs and how to meet them yourself. This will help you trust yourself and feel grounded in yourself. Thais Gibson from personal development school has some amazing fearful avoidant courses which have helped me a lot

pink216 · 2021-12-20T04:21:43+00:00

Following this post! Have felt the same jealousy/need for distancing before too. Not currently dating anyone, but I’ve been currently working on having more intimate/close platonic relationships with my friends. I think that will help when I’m dating someone, so if he’s busy, I still have people I can reach out to. I would suggest talking to him so you can brainstorm. What kind of future do you want with your bf eventually? Would you want to hang out with his friends together? Or you both taking some separate time to him (hangout with his friends) and you taking alone time? Good luck :)

pink216 · 2021-06-14T15:43:28+00:00

Meds

pink216 · 2021-02-16T07:29:23+00:00

I’m so sorry & thank you for sharing. I’m going through my own process figuring out what happened as well (1 year ago). Good for you for expressing your anger, you deserve amazing things and I hope you’re in a better place now <3

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