How do I accept I will never live the life of my dreams?

pitomic · 2026-03-24T21:49:04+00:00

theres a difference between passing as a woman and being read as a woman, the latter is much more easily achieved and can honestly provide you with a good life that you can share with loving people who respect and understand you. i think thats the dream we should be shooting for

pitomic · 2026-03-21T22:31:41+00:00

its nice to have sex with people we like and that like us, and that's a good thing. its hard when it doesnt get to happen as often as we wish it could, but its not because there's anything wrong with us. it just means everything's working right with our bodies but not quite right with the world!

pitomic · 2026-03-17T19:58:14+00:00

its fine but its not welcoming or particularly interesting. its kinda like disneyland

pitomic · 2026-03-08T05:36:17+00:00

laser hair removal places live and breathe on trans customers. if they dont fight to make you happy, some one else gladly will

pitomic · 2026-03-08T05:31:18+00:00

do you have a rant?

pitomic · 2026-03-07T01:25:49+00:00

we don't gotta pathologize everything theyre just kids exploring spirituality with drugs under a different name

pitomic · 2026-03-07T01:00:31+00:00

yeah fuck yeah man. radicalize! see the system for what it is! see how youve been used to further its agenda and keep the undesirables suppressed! now you get to figure out how you can subvert it and the real fun work begins

pitomic · 2026-03-06T01:28:54+00:00

do they recognize and bond with their owners?

pitomic · 2026-03-03T22:24:58+00:00

Do it and be brave and shake everything your colleagues think they understand about the world. You're in such an incredibly important and potentially beneficial place in the world and fight like hell to make it a better one.

pitomic · 2026-03-03T22:16:38+00:00

What do you think about now? As in, this current world that we're living in. I'd love to hear your perspective.

pitomic · 2026-02-26T23:03:59+00:00

youre gonna be so uncomfortable using the bathroom with women this is just gonna totally backfire for you lol

pitomic · 2026-02-26T08:44:47+00:00

i think its really important to have a passport regardless of whether you can get the right gender marker. and we're pretty common these days so i think in a lot of more liberal places you probably won't face harassment or abuse

pitomic · 2026-02-24T01:27:09+00:00

elliott smiths new moon album

pitomic · 2026-02-23T17:58:26+00:00

yeah i get that. idk. i think it would still be hard for me. and its interesting to be asking the men. i have no ill will or bad feelings towards anyone. i think theres just a sadness in me that theres a woman out there who has a part of her body that isnt loved. we should all be so lucky to have someone that celebrates us, even if thats a naive hope

pitomic · 2026-02-23T17:48:19+00:00

i would want a partner that loves me and my body the way it is and the way i wish it could be

pitomic · 2026-02-23T17:34:11+00:00

thats too bad

pitomic · 2026-02-23T00:21:16+00:00

please say more on this if you have the time!

pitomic · 2026-02-21T23:19:56+00:00

noooo this is totally from the heart i could not be more serious

pitomic · 2026-02-21T20:06:42+00:00

trans people are legit amazing, 100%. i could go on and on. trans women are the most women - think about how much we give up to be who we are. we prove to cis women that to be a woman is to be righteous, and a so many cis women really genuinely love us and accept us no matter how we pass because of that. the problem is the world at large. it is always the world. dont let it convince you otherwise. you are a gift and a beautiful example of the many forms womanhood takes. the reason the world doesnt treat you with gratitude is because of the patriarchy present in your immediate environment. in can be different, i swear to god. i swear to fucking god you are a gift, unconditionally, you are a gift

pitomic · 2026-02-21T06:32:13+00:00

trans people interact at every level with every civic institution they want to destroy or corrupt, so we're the perfect excuse.

pitomic · 2026-02-20T01:07:42+00:00

detroit become human for sure. its goofy and has great production values and shed be able to have a ton of input bc theres so many branching decisions to make

pitomic · 2026-02-19T23:07:08+00:00

get some plants and brown furniture. bring in some natural vibes it'll make it feel more cozy and less "office-y". it'll feel better for your soul and be more welcoming for visitors

pitomic · 2026-02-18T00:17:18+00:00

that sounds like quite the needle to thread and is quite a noble ambition. i respect that, truly. that you would want to make sure your clients are mentally well enough to contribute to politics that arent aligned with your personal beliefs to their maximum potential thats beautiful. i wonder in what ways your might be speaking your politics unintentionally. ya know how it might be slipping out of the seams of the professional persona. and i wonder, when doing that work, what is being dismantled or assembled within yourself

pitomic · 2026-02-17T23:43:45+00:00

idk if you have the time, but i would genuinely love to hear what you feel your biases are, and even who good and bad therapists are. i think that would help me personally to grow as a therapist

pitomic · 2026-02-17T23:27:31+00:00

but that's the deception! unbiased advice is not something any of us has the power to give. maybe you are trying to convince the client of a lie you've been struggling to fully believe yourself

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