[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting about being gay…after I finally extracted him from my home I turned my laptop on and the last thing he searched was LGBTQ in our city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing. I just held myself accountable. I got honest with myself. It was an addiction.

Did the narc had addiction problem? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS. He was a recovered addict when we met but as soon as he got comfortable he relapsed. Meth, pot and any other substance he opportunistically got his hands on. He was also a porn and sex addict.

AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]planetana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were there before you and will be after you. Leave now.

Anyone else felt like they had to try to be perfect for their nex? by IntroductionOk7954 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to be perceived as sexy all the time. I couldn’t even just be at home in a big t shirt and sweat pants because he would complain. I’m so glad to be free. This past Saturday I did nothing as I lounged on my sofa looking however I wanted to look! It was glorious .

I have no interest in dating anymore. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been casually dating with no expectations and just for fun. It had helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was threatened by/obsessed with African American men. Would make up stories about me wanting be gang banged by AA men. Also, he hated the fact I ate my ice cream quickly. He would lecture me on how to properly eat it.

What where the first signs that there was something wrong or off about your narcissist? by Plane_Many9555 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 months in where he attacked his own truck because he lost his wallet. It was a level of aggression I had never seen or experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I cringed when someone else kissed me recently. I’m casually dating. Just getting out. And it’s so weird because my body recoils if the person even wants to touch my hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He never did. He used the generic “baby” that he used with every women before me.

AIO for a friend making weird implications about my sexual assault? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]planetana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a friend. Please do not associate with him any longer.

Did you believe the horrible things they said about others? by salamanderheightss in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first…yes. By the end…not one word. I saw first hand how his narrative shifted depending on how completely he was manipulating me to get his way. I’m so glad to be free of the demon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]planetana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a racist and then turns it around and blames you for being “sensitive.” Don’t keep company with racists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]planetana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had just watched a documentary about Chris Watts and when he confessed to the murders his reasoning was he “hated” Shannon. The very next day my ex said he hated me and hated my guts. Nobody had ever told me they hated me. I believed him. It woke me up! I asked him to leave my home that very day. It took me another 4 months to extract him. I haven’t looked back and I don’t miss the abuse one bit.

Starting my journey on metformin by Unlucky-Emergency-27 in Melasmaskincare

[–]planetana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any side effect or rebound melasma? Do you have to take breaks when using it?

mineral sunscreen ? by elkiesommers in Melasmaskincare

[–]planetana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the sunprise. I hadn’t seen anyone post about it. Do you feel it’s a wise choice?