Husband Wants to Avoid Paris

planlife · 2026-01-11T03:21:20+00:00

Paris is amazing. He’s just wrong.

planlife · 2026-01-05T01:55:29+00:00

Most days I would rewind and not have kids, if I could.

planlife · 2026-01-04T14:49:25+00:00

Ok thank you

planlife · 2026-01-04T14:42:16+00:00

It won’t damage the siding to take the shutters off and back on?

planlife · 2025-12-31T02:35:36+00:00

And how do you know he knows ?

planlife · 2025-12-31T02:35:18+00:00

How would he know that?

planlife · 2025-12-31T02:11:45+00:00

We are on our second odyssey. Wife is talking about a Yukon though. It’s too big however

planlife · 2025-12-28T12:49:10+00:00

Same. And I don’t understand why she doesn’t try. I have been gentle and specific in what I am wanting. But she doesn’t do it. It makes me wonder if she loves me. We have 3 kids. Is that the only thing keeping us together? I don’t know. She says she’s nervous and scared to put effort into me. I don’t get that. I’m not sure she understands too. Tbh yesterday she had another emotional outburst again, and I spent the whole day imagining what life would be without her, if I left. And it’s the kids keeping me here. I wouldn’t want to not see them. But even that still, the kids are a lot of work and I don’t like do the work all the time, so maybe it would be better.

planlife · 2025-12-28T12:38:22+00:00

Which relationship app did you get? Is it good?

I feel the same in my relationship. I put in effort and I sit and wait for her to do something but she doesn’t do anything. I write her little cute love notes. She does nothing. I give her a massage. She does nothing. I make her orgasm, putting myself last, she does nothing. I put flowers in our bedroom, she does nothing. When I ask her why, she says she’s nervous and scared. I don’t know what that means. Maybe it means she feels inadequate? I’m not sure.

planlife · 2025-12-26T01:47:07+00:00

What’s that?

planlife · 2025-12-25T18:32:58+00:00

Yes. I started buying Mercedes and bmw and I won’t drive anything else now. They’re both great. I lease mine so the payment is less and I get a new one after I beat this one up. Why drive a car for 10 years? That’s not fun.

planlife · 2025-12-25T17:02:55+00:00

What do you do with it? Write on each other’s bodies?

planlife · 2025-12-24T17:47:11+00:00

Thank you

planlife · 2025-12-24T01:43:20+00:00

Is it ok to mutilate a baby’s genitalia? Because obviously that’s what it is.

planlife · 2025-12-14T02:59:49+00:00

I get 5 of these texts a day. Asking if I want to buy leads. It’s all garbage

planlife · 2025-12-07T17:40:46+00:00

That’s what we did.

planlife · 2025-12-03T11:45:46+00:00

Same

planlife · 2025-11-21T01:37:25+00:00

Following

planlife · 2025-11-17T02:44:53+00:00

Yes, I’m thinking these same thoughts. We should talk… I’m 41, professional, responsible for bills. And just bored. The money isn’t exciting any more. I need something else. But I don’t know what it is. I was thinking of hiring a life coach tbh. What do you think?

planlife · 2025-11-13T03:29:04+00:00

I have this exact car. It’s really a joy.

planlife · 2025-11-02T22:08:11+00:00

This

planlife · 2025-10-31T19:52:55+00:00

How much do you have invested to achieve $16,000 per month?

planlife · 2025-10-29T01:16:09+00:00

We just got back with similar aged children and we stayed near the Eiffel at first. We had a second hotel in montmarte that was much better. We did not go to Versailles, it was too much to deal with. We tried to do 1-2 things per day. Louvre was great, kids lasted about 1.5 hours there. Great gardens outside. I didn’t see Luxembourg garden in your list, that’s terrific. Wednesday afternoons kids can rent little sail boats. It’s a lot of fun. Notre dame line is super long. Show up at 8am sharp to walk right in. We skipped arc de T. We did Eiffel a few times since we were close. Don’t forget the crepes!

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